I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
"As a youth" you say. What age is that? I didn't realise much about sex until I left school. I certainly had no sexual contact with anyone until I was 19 although I certainly masturbated and had sexual feelings but they were diffuse and not focused on anyone.
I think if I had been focused I could have awakened earlier but I suspect that that would have been torment because it would have been so difficult to find opportunities.
As it is I feel that my life from 19 to 28 was mostly a sexual desert when I was chronically frustrated with only occasional lucky breaks - though it was worse for young women as my wife will tell you.
And I agree that the youth of today have a much better time - but with more danger!