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Unconditional Sex  [message #53264] Tue, 16 September 2008 18:30 Go to next message
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I wonder if it the anal taboo?  [message #53265 is a reply to message #53264] Tue, 16 September 2008 19:03 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Remember "Gay men take it up the arse!" and that is obviously feminine!


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Re: I wonder if it the anal taboo?  [message #53266 is a reply to message #53265] Tue, 16 September 2008 21:18 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Well, Timmy, I don't think so.

First, as a matter of fact, far from all gay men like anal intercourse and fewer practise it.

Second, isn't it a (false) stereotype that women think that? I don't think they do - but how do we establish the truth?

Third, I think it was established by Kinsey that most anal intercourse is between men and women and before the invention of condoms it was a method of birth control.

Or am I under some kind of delusion?

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Re: Unconditional Sex  [message #53267 is a reply to message #53264] Tue, 16 September 2008 21:22 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Yes, Michael, when I was young that was exactly how it was. I'm sure that quite a few of those I had sex with in the navy were heterosexual when they could choose. Randy young men don't have too many scruples hence all the stories about boarding schools.

And no, I've never turned down a woman either. At least when it was a genuine loving offer. Sex is a lovely way to be nice to a friend - or so I think.

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Re: I wonder if it the anal taboo?  [message #53268 is a reply to message #53266] Tue, 16 September 2008 21:23 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I am not saying that gay men do it. I am saying that str8 men are sure that is all we do.


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Re: Unconditional Sex  [message #53272 is a reply to message #53264] Wed, 17 September 2008 03:03 Go to previous message
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