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I'm sure I'm not alone in having read a few stories that deal with a boy's first ever orgasm.
The recurring theme seems to be:
"I'm going to pee"
"No you're not"
"I am!"
Followed by "Wow, I never felt anything like that before!"
I got to pondering that. I remember the entire circumstance and sensations of my first ever orgasm. It was a solo effort. It was most assuredly not a sensation like needing a pee!
So where did this odd description come from? Or was your first orgamsm a peeing build-up kind of sensation?
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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Funny you should mention the 'peeing' thing. After my first, I had to wee-wee. lol I must have eight. Lol. (Thank my teddy bear!!! haha)
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timmy
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well, AFTER, yes.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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But no wee-wee came out...lol...so I guess it can feel similiar. ::-)
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There's never been any association between the two for me, even during my first. I was rather surprised, but knew from the quite different sensation that I was not about to urinate.
I wonder if the story descriptions come from a lack of imagination. Assuming that the participants are not ridiculously young, few people are likely to have their first orgasm without some idea of the difference between the two functions. If an orgasm is anticipated, the chances of someone mistaking it for urination are pretty slight, I would have thought.
I have to say I do find the dialogue pretty laboured in a lot of stories on the internet -- in most cases (but not, of course, all) I feel that the author fills the page with dialogue off the top of his or her head just to pad it out. I scrutinise dialogue rather carefully, because, in film, it is generally ruthlessly cut if it's in any way hackneyed/redundant/unnecessary, and I'm a great believer in 'show, not tell'.
David
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timmy
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I suspect the description comes from trying to make it a naive association that a child might(!) make.
I never "expected" my first orgasm. I tried wanking because a kid at school told me what to do and said it was fun. I never expected the conclusion! When we talked about it afterwards he couldn't believe it either. Neither he nor I, nor our friends when we spoke about it, could believe that we got to a point that felt so weird and fun, but that we also had to STOP.
It sure wasn't like peeing! It was like someone playing a harp with my insides, but somewhere I couldn't explain!
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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I still think my first orgasm was the best one I ever had. After the third time it felt different. The first was like an explosion inside me.
Hugs
N
I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.
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It just never seemed to me to be anything like peeing, so I thought I'd ask 
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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I agree with Deeej. I think its just a lack of imagination on the authors part. It hasnt been all that long since my first time and Im pretty sure it had nothing to do with wee weeing.
8 years old? the only thing I was thinking about at 8 was how to blow up the boys room at the school.
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I feel jealous... of you...
And I feel betrayed... by my own (otherwise very good) memory. I know I was 12 and maybe 2 or 3 months. But I simply can't recall what happened. I think I must have been asleep, though I can't remember wet sheet or blanket... Hm... that's something I'd really like to experience once again. (Sigh)
Marek
It is better to switch on a small light than to curse the darkness.
- Vincent Šikula, Slovak writer
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timmy
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how about the first one you had on purpose?
Most kids first orgasms are way before ejaculate is manufactured, hence dry sheets!
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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Uhhh, well, yes, I think I can recall that one...
I was rubbing my cock against the blanket and somehow after a while felt kind of "over-stimulation" or "over-excitement". It was strange but mighty pleasing. Today I wonder how it happened that I hadn't left any evidence on the sheets then. 
That was my first "on purpose" orgasm.
And yeah, I'd like to experience that one once again (or twice, or thrice... go figure!)
Marek
It is better to switch on a small light than to curse the darkness.
- Vincent Šikula, Slovak writer
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Well, I remember mine, Timmy.
For some time I had been fondling myself in bed and discovered that after a while I produced something that definitely wasn't pee but was delightfully slippery and that greatly enhanced the nice feelings I got from the fondling. I am circumcised and so masturbation without lubricant is very much less comfortable.
I also discovered that production of precum was enhanced by squeezing my bladder sphincter tight shut and releasing the tension. If the tension was released too far and my bladder was full I guess a drop or two of pee did escape (after the first time I had a handkerchief ready!) but, as the urethra had precum in it, what came out at the end was still delightfully slippery.
And then one night the delight went too far and I ejaculated. I had no idea what it was all about and it scared me! But I enjoyed rubbing this bonanza of extra slipperiness over me. I was reconciled to doing it often long before I found out what it was and I can't remember when or how I found out. (You can tell from the fact that in my whole life I've only ever had two wet dreams!) I certainly didn't ever speak to my parents about it. Maybe it was in a biology class at school - I'm not sure - but I don't think I ever spoke about it with another boy until a long time afterwards.
Love,
Anthony
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