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Porn thoughts  [message #53829] Sun, 05 October 2008 22:41 Go to next message
timmy

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I've found all sorts of porn over the years, some that revolts me, other stuff that arouses me. I'm wondering if I'm alone in my attitude to floods of real or fake semen in pictures.

I am perfectly happy to see a video or a still of a cute and legal lad reaching orgasm. I quite like little puddles of semen in appropriate places. I'd be very happy to see it in real life, too.

The part I don't care for is seeing it in peculiar places. Why does a participant need a faceful? He might as well have flour and water paste on his face for all the excitement I feel!

Is it just me?


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Re: Porn thoughts  [message #53830 is a reply to message #53829] Sun, 05 October 2008 23:44 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Re: Porn thoughts  [message #53837 is a reply to message #53830] Mon, 06 October 2008 08:58 Go to previous message
acam is currently offline  acam

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Dear Michael, who *has* had enough?

As for porn: to begin with I found the pictures amazing when the people were cute but it soon got so it didn't stimulate me at all. I certainly have never paid anything for it on the web. Twenty years ago I used to buy a magazine occasionally. That's all the money I ever spent on it.

Like Radio, the pictures are better in stories. That's what brought me to this site and discovering I could talk to real people kept me here. But I still read the stories. I've just reread Charlie's "Finding Tim" and am rereading everything Grasshopper wrote.

And I don't see why anyone nice is turned on by a facial. Such people would be treating sex as acts of dominance rather than love. As far as I am concerned sex is just a way of being really nice to someone and anything else is a perversion.

Love,
Anthony
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