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Risky sex  [message #53922] Wed, 08 October 2008 10:08 Go to next message
Fingolfin is currently offline  Fingolfin

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Not in terms of health, but place.

What was the most unusual (or risky) place where you made love?

For me, it was getting BJ near the lake full of people (summer, go figure), hopefully no one noticed...; sex in my friend's younger sister's bedroom after a party...

How abou you?

Marek



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Re: Risky sex  [message #53925 is a reply to message #53922] Wed, 08 October 2008 10:50 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Well, I definitely don't do "risky" (in terms of discovery, or anything else). But I *do* (or did used to) very much do "unusual and experimental". So -

  • on a pinball table
  • on a bar counter
  • on a billiard table
  • in the spectators gallery at the swimming pool

    etc - all of the above in my Student Union days, when I'd locked the building for the night and was alone apart from one other person ...

    but pride of place probably goes to -
  • on the set of the Sondheim musical "Follies", with full lighting, on stage at the Shaftesbury Theatre, London.
    Admittedly, it was around 3 am, and another "lock-in", but it was an altogether curious experience!



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  • Re: Risky sex  [message #53926 is a reply to message #53922] Wed, 08 October 2008 10:54 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    At a party, aged 17/18, in full view, though it was dark, with a girl, to prove I was heterosexual to all my friends.

    On the lawn in front of the sailing club at about midnight at about 23. Another girl. Why was it always girls?



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    Re: Risky sex  [message #53927 is a reply to message #53922] Wed, 08 October 2008 10:54 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    Dear Marek,

    In a punt on the Cherwell, in the open on Hampstead Heath, in a room with a grandmother (not mine) next door with the doors of both rooms open, on the sides of various Scottish hills, on the edge of Otmoor, where we were disturbed by a man walking his dog (luckily it was too dark for him to see it was two men!), in the attic storeroom of a naval barrack block (nearly got caught there too) and a 'not quite' - I was too frightened to go further in a fitting cubicle in Vince man's shop in Fouberts Place.

    Love,
    Anthony
    Re: Risky sex  [message #53928 is a reply to message #53927] Wed, 08 October 2008 11:01 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    acam wrote:
    > Dear Marek,
    >
    > In a punt on the Cherwell,
    (snip)

    How on earth did you manage that? I was always too scared that if we got too energetic we'd end up slopping water into the boat and sinking ... when things started getting intimate it was cushions on the bank for me.



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    Re: Risky sex  [message #53930 is a reply to message #53922] Wed, 08 October 2008 11:23 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    In a dunken donut restaurant with 2 policemen sitting directly opposite (the counter was U shaped), in the skywalk of the prudential center building in Boston, at a table in the dining room of the Ritz Carlton hotel, in an express elevator (sometimes it had to be a quickie), on the giant chess board of the Carver renaisance faire, in the maze of the carver renaisance faire, and in an open convertible parked near Buckingham Palace...



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    Re: Risky sex  [message #53934 is a reply to message #53928] Wed, 08 October 2008 11:46 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    Dear NW,

    the good old-fashioned punts can easily carry six people and are very stable. I used to be very good at punting and the upper limit of navigation on the Cherwell is at Islip, a village almost on the edge of Otmoor. I guess it may be three or four miles above the Cherwell Boathouse (which is where you hire the punts).

    And, unlike Cambridge, where you have to bring the punts back at 6:00 or 6:30 you can return to punt up to 10 pm. I've even been the first punt out at 10 am and cooked bacon sandwiches on a primus stove on the way. Going punting without reaching the limit of navigation is just not on. I don't know anyone else who has this attitude. Most people don't even go beyond the bypass bridge.

    Is that enoght explanation? I'm going to see if I can find a picture to attach (me, punting, John Hayes with Beth hidden behind a knee, at the other end were Rudi, Donald Hankey and Anne Wilson: Rudi and I lusted after John, I think Donald was/is straight and so were the girls).

    Love,
    Anthony
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    Re: Risky sex  [message #53940 is a reply to message #53922] Wed, 08 October 2008 13:16 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    As I remember it was Phil and I in the back of a jr high classroom while class was going on, but we were just feeling each other up and were shielded by our desks. We did have our junk out of our pants though.

    I was actually quite active in and around school as there was a good deal of wooded area around our campus and plenty of secluded places.



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    Re: Risky sex  [message #53947 is a reply to message #53922] Wed, 08 October 2008 15:24 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    Re: Risky sex  [message #53949 is a reply to message #53922] Wed, 08 October 2008 15:34 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    One of my very good friends (str8) had sex in the lake under the water surface, when they were not alone!!! When he was describing it, I couldn't believe my ears. It's just so not him! But, well, who knows?

    Marek



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    Re: Risky sex  [message #53955 is a reply to message #53949] Wed, 08 October 2008 17:38 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    Re: Risky sex  [message #53964 is a reply to message #53934] Wed, 08 October 2008 23:01 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    Nice pic!

    I agree about punting up beyond the bypass: well worth the effort (and much more likely to find the requisite degree of solitude). I always hired a punt from Magdalen Bridge rather than Cherwell Boathouse, so that was a pretty long punt ... especially if we got delayed looking at the scenery in Parson's Pleasure (the former male nude bathing place, just after the rollers).



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    Re: Risky sex  [message #53966 is a reply to message #53964] Thu, 09 October 2008 08:16 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    Dear NW,

    I have many happy memories of Parson's Pleasure. I went there a lot and got brown all over. After I left Oxford I couldn't visit it much but did on occasion but towards the end it deteriorated a lot. I think it closed at the end of the eighties or early in the nineties. They didn't replace Alfred, who kept order and cut the grass; it got vandalised - the lavatory basin broken and other damage; people started having sex flagrantly and so the university parks just closed it. I did write protesting.

    I also used to sunbathe and swim at Highgate ponds, but it was nowhere near as good.

    I've hired punts from Magdalen Bridge too. From there to the Victoria Arms was a very scenic ride.

    Love,
    Anthony
    Re: Risky sex  [message #53970 is a reply to message #53955] Thu, 09 October 2008 08:29 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    I've never tried... What's the tough part? Keeping a hard-on? Aiming to get inside her? Health issues?

    Marek



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    I would hazard a guess and suggest it's a lack of lubrication. Water can remove natural lubricant and also any 'water based' ones obviously so I am sceptical of accounts of underwater explorations...
    Re: Risky sex  [message #53980 is a reply to message #53970] Thu, 09 October 2008 14:25 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    icon9.gif Re: Risky sex  [message #53991 is a reply to message #53922] Thu, 09 October 2008 20:01 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    Damn Dyslexia, I thought it said "Ricky Sex!"
    Re: Risky sex  [message #53992 is a reply to message #53991] Thu, 09 October 2008 20:05 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    Welcome, ricky,

    I don't recall seeing you here before. What can I do for you? What do you want to do for someone else?

    Love,
    Anthony
    Re: Risky sex  [message #53995 is a reply to message #53992] Thu, 09 October 2008 20:30 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    I'm a new author here and was directed to view posts as they were talking about my story. (I never knew about the forum.) I was on my way to view the posts when I passed by the one that said "RICKY SEX!"

    I got all excited and in a twitter until I realized it said "Risky" sex.

    My hopes were shot down inflames.:-/

    ricky
    Re: Risky sex  [message #54004 is a reply to message #53995] Thu, 09 October 2008 21:25 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    Oh! You poor thing! And dyslexic too!!! Dear Ricky, if you have half the empathy that you story indicates you are a wonderful addition to this board.

    I welcome you and hope to find out more about you.

    Love,
    Anthony
    icon6.gif Re: Ricky sex  [message #54013 is a reply to message #53991] Fri, 10 October 2008 08:09 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    What do you want to do about that...?

    Marek

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    Re: Ricky sex  [message #54032 is a reply to message #54013] Fri, 10 October 2008 21:19 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    Why, you got any ideas?
    Re: Ricky sex  [message #54039 is a reply to message #54032] Sat, 11 October 2008 09:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    you know, being in Slovakia somehow prevents us from meeting each other...Wink , no, I was rather curious about your desires, maybe...?
    If I'm being too blunt, don't answer...

    Marek

    P.S. Of course, no offense meant...



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    Re: Ricky sex  [message #54055 is a reply to message #54039] Sat, 11 October 2008 18:46 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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    I don't know about the rest of us but you two are certainly giving me ideas! Try to remember that I am 73!

    Love,
    Anthony
    Re: Ricky sex  [message #54099 is a reply to message #54055] Mon, 13 October 2008 08:17 Go to previous message
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    Save your ideas, Anthony, Ricky did not answer, which means I had been blunt. Sigh....

    Marek

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