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We have a new poll  [message #55248] Mon, 05 January 2009 13:35 Go to next message
timmy

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It is here:
The Best Things About Being A Gay Guy

I love being gay because: (tick all that apply)

I can wear pink mohair sweaters
I adore PVC and Leather pants
I just KNOW when a guy is aroused
I love showers at the gym! Str8 guys never get to see a whole selection of naked sex objects
Being Camp and Str8 would be such a chore!
I love the company of girls, and girls love gay guys
Flirting with waiters is such fun!
I can't get my partner pregnant
I love teasing Jesus freaks
My wardrobe doubles the moment I find a partner
I can leave the toilet seat UP!
I can check out of hotels fast! I pack my shit overnight!!
Sex requires so little foreplay! Shall we? YES WE SHALL!
I can flirt myself into a free haircut
It makes my boss so uncomfy, and he can't fire me because we have an equal opportunities policy
I have instinctive memory of all musical songs
I just love showtunes!
I can be proud of my ABBA collection
Barbra Streisand may be ugly as sin, but I can defend her in girly chats!
I can go to a drag show without the slightest embarrassment


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Re: We have a new poll  [message #55251 is a reply to message #55248] Mon, 05 January 2009 14:45 Go to previous messageGo to next message
acam is currently offline  acam

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I want to comment! Who invented those questions? Whoever did should be painted pink and hung out to dry!

I was only able to tick TWO of the supposed advantages. I think it was invented by a very camp dress designer who had spent all weekend between Heaven and the Admiral Duncan.

What about stomach muscles? What about a pretty backside? What about knowing how it feels or knowing how to feel it? What about the prostate? What about rolling his foreskin up and down? What about precum? What about muscles? What about jockstraps? Does nobody consider cock rings? What about sunbathing and skateboarding and surfing? What about dancing and tights and lycra shorts and even zentai? What about tighty whities and form-fitting boxers? And what about the twitch just before it becomes unbearable? And what about the smells and the tastes? What about sniffing armpits and crotches?

I suspect the question-setter wasn't really gay at all - only doubled in spades camp.

Love,
Anthony

[Updated on: Mon, 05 January 2009 14:46]

Re: We have a new poll  [message #55252 is a reply to message #55251] Mon, 05 January 2009 15:21 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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But none of those are exclusively gay!



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Re: We have a new poll  [message #55256 is a reply to message #55252] Mon, 05 January 2009 17:13 Go to previous messageGo to next message
acam is currently offline  acam

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Nor were most of the questions exclusively gay. In combination, however, I do think the topics I listed would be quite a good indicator!

Anyway I am still disappointed at how few of the boxes I got to tick.

Love,
Anthony
Re: We have a new poll  [message #55258 is a reply to message #55251] Mon, 05 January 2009 17:40 Go to previous messageGo to next message
NW is currently offline  NW

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acam wrote:
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> I was only able to tick TWO of the supposed advantages.

That's two more than I was able to tick!

[Updated on: Mon, 05 January 2009 17:41]




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Re: We have a new poll  [message #55259 is a reply to message #55258] Mon, 05 January 2009 17:51 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Do I deduce, NW, that either you or whoever set the poll questions is somehow on the wrong site?

Or maybe it was just that the questions were nothing to do with being gay?

I'd accept people might have the view that I don't count as properly gay but I really don't think it would be fair to cavil at you.

Love,
Anthony
Re: We have a new poll  [message #55261 is a reply to message #55248] Mon, 05 January 2009 18:58 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Nigel is currently offline  Nigel

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I'm with Anthony. I would be pushed to tick two of those boxes. I find his list far more interesting and relevant.

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I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
icon5.gif There is a question I really need to ask!  [message #55266 is a reply to message #55248] Mon, 05 January 2009 20:12 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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It's on the tip of my tongue. Now let me see, where is it? Ah yes, just inside my teeth. So, if I stick it out you can read it!

"Have any of you noticed that this is a bit of fun?"



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Re: There is a question I really need to ask!  [message #55276 is a reply to message #55266] Mon, 05 January 2009 21:24 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Nigel is currently offline  Nigel

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That's obviously escaped most of us. Probably our fault, not the fault of the pollster.

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I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.
Re: There is a question I really need to ask!  [message #55278 is a reply to message #55276] Mon, 05 January 2009 22:01 Go to previous messageGo to next message
acam is currently offline  acam

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I really thought my tongue was far enough through my cheek for you to see it without pointing it out.

Love,
Anthony
Re: There is a question I really need to ask!  [message #55282 is a reply to message #55278] Mon, 05 January 2009 22:56 Go to previous messageGo to next message
timmy

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As with all omelettes, the yolk is on me!



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Re: We have a new poll  [message #55283 is a reply to message #55259] Tue, 06 January 2009 00:57 Go to previous message
NW is currently offline  NW

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acam wrote:
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> I'd accept people might have the view that I don't count as properly gay but I really don't think it would be fair to cavil at you.


Plenty of people have! Back when I first came out - around 30 years ago - the more militant members of the gay/student community frequently had a go at me for excessive timidity, conservatism, and "having been brainwashed by hetero-normative ideologies".

That roughly translates as "believing in an age of consent, not really liking casual sex, believing in stable long-term partnerships, and not buying into the idea that penetrative sex is necessarily an exploitative power relationship"

I've always had to struggle to promote acceptance of diversity of tastes, lifestyles and beliefs among gay people as much as - or possibly more than - among straight people!



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