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Odd, the things you remember [message #55821]

Tue, 24 February 2009 17:07

timmy

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I'm writing a book at the moment, one I hope will be published. Its time period is forom 1965 to 1970 and I'm adding real events to it in order to give it depth.

About 3 miles from my home a weird incident took place: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mormon_sex_in_chains_case For some reason I can never remember the woman's name, and it always comes out as the one the Kennedy boy drowned. Ah well. Never accept a lift near water from that family!

So I looked for Joyce McKinney on Wikipedia and found she had been deleted! Presumably the information would besmirch her name if written as a biography. That's Wikipedia for you! But I did research and create the other article.

I discovered that it is the wrong time period by 10 years, so it won;t make the book. Ah well.

The important thing for putting it here is that people need to understand, if they have been abused, that reaching erection and orgasm is a normal and natural response to sexual excitement, even if not wanted. A man can be made to penetrate another person, even unwillingly. His body will respond.

[Updated on: Tue, 24 February 2009 17:12]

Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School

Re: Odd, the things you remember [message #55828 is a reply to message #55821]

Wed, 25 February 2009 12:09

acam

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Dear Timmy, I read a novel some time ago which included such incidents - a woman tying a man up and then sitting on his erection. I wonder when it was written. I'll let you know If I remember. I'm sure there were scenes in it on Hampstead Heath. They interested me because I went to school in Hampstead and lived in West Hampstead from 1946 until 1963 (apart from periods away doing national service, at university.and in my first job).

It's surprising to me how many people enjoy being tied up. Of course being tied up is the perfect excuse to abandon yourself to your own feelings and to do nothing at all to please your partner - not like loving at all!

Love,
Anthony

I wonder... [message #55829 is a reply to message #55828]

Wed, 25 February 2009 12:48

timmy

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Location: UK, in Devon
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acam wrote:
> It's surprising to me how many people enjoy being tied up. Of course being tied up is the perfect excuse to abandon yourself to your own feelings and to do nothing at all to please your partner - not like loving at all!

I wonder. Talking to people who enjoy light bondage they say differently. They say that it is an amazing opportunity to allow your partner the pleasure of doing absolutely anything they want (up to use of safe word). Their own feelings are often secondary.

In any dominant/submissive relationship the submissive party has all the power. And they feel that, when tied, they empower their partner to heights of enjoyment.

Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School

Re: I wonder... [message #55830 is a reply to message #55829]

Wed, 25 February 2009 13:22

acam

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Dear Timmy, I hadn't thought of that. It tells you something about my attitude to sex and love that I hadn't.

I've never got close to anyone that wanted to tie me up or that wanted me to tie him up (well, except one person who was out of bounds).

Maybe I'm missing something!

Love,
Anthony

Re: Odd, the things you remember [message #55837 is a reply to message #55828]

Wed, 25 February 2009 22:12

Nigel

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Anthony, I have a perfect memory of myself at the age of three sitting crosslegged in the middle of the landing pretending my wrists were tied behind my back and a consquent erection. No wonder I grew up as I did!

Hugs
Nigel

I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.

Re: Odd, the things you remember [message #55844 is a reply to message #55837]

Thu, 26 February 2009 12:38

acam

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Oh! Nigel, how sweet! And what a mad society we live in that a picture would be illegal!

And I've just bought 500 meters of 6mm rope!

Love,
Anthony

Re: Odd, the things you remember [message #55850 is a reply to message #55844]

Thu, 26 February 2009 21:44

Nigel

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Perhaps at my age that's what I need, Anthony. lol

Hugs
N

I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.

…and look forward to meeting you in Cóito.

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