I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796
I'm writing a book at the moment, one I hope will be published. Its time period is forom 1965 to 1970 and I'm adding real events to it in order to give it depth.
About 3 miles from my home a weird incident took place: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mormon_sex_in_chains_case For some reason I can never remember the woman's name, and it always comes out as the one the Kennedy boy drowned. Ah well. Never accept a lift near water from that family!
So I looked for Joyce McKinney on Wikipedia and found she had been deleted! Presumably the information would besmirch her name if written as a biography. That's Wikipedia for you! But I did research and create the other article.
I discovered that it is the wrong time period by 10 years, so it won;t make the book. Ah well.
The important thing for putting it here is that people need to understand, if they have been abused, that reaching erection and orgasm is a normal and natural response to sexual excitement, even if not wanted. A man can be made to penetrate another person, even unwillingly. His body will respond.
Dear Timmy, I read a novel some time ago which included such incidents - a woman tying a man up and then sitting on his erection. I wonder when it was written. I'll let you know If I remember. I'm sure there were scenes in it on Hampstead Heath. They interested me because I went to school in Hampstead and lived in West Hampstead from 1946 until 1963 (apart from periods away doing national service, at university.and in my first job).
It's surprising to me how many people enjoy being tied up. Of course being tied up is the perfect excuse to abandon yourself to your own feelings and to do nothing at all to please your partner - not like loving at all!
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13796
acam wrote:
> It's surprising to me how many people enjoy being tied up. Of course being tied up is the perfect excuse to abandon yourself to your own feelings and to do nothing at all to please your partner - not like loving at all!
I wonder. Talking to people who enjoy light bondage they say differently. They say that it is an amazing opportunity to allow your partner the pleasure of doing absolutely anything they want (up to use of safe word). Their own feelings are often secondary.
In any dominant/submissive relationship the submissive party has all the power. And they feel that, when tied, they empower their partner to heights of enjoyment.
Location: England
Registered: November 2003
Messages: 1756
Anthony, I have a perfect memory of myself at the age of three sitting crosslegged in the middle of the landing pretending my wrists were tied behind my back and a consquent erection. No wonder I grew up as I did!
Hugs
Nigel
I dream of boys with big bulges in their trousers,
Never of girls with big bulges in their blouses.