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I dont understand  [message #55887] Wed, 04 March 2009 17:00 Go to next message
Roger is currently offline  Roger

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Since my retirement and health issues as I do work around the house I listen to Court TV. This is mostly for the noise but I do listen some. One thing I have begun to notice is guys living off their girlfriends. Its not short term either some of these relationships last two years or more. Then the girl goes to court all weepy and crying wanting the court to make the boyfriend pay rent or utilities or a car note. The guy doesnt pay rent or utilities and she buys him a car. This is insane. Id say 60% are black guys and white girls, and 30% are black guys and black girls, and 10% are black girls and white guys. Are these women stupid or what. If they had been stupid enough to support the deadbeat for so long, she should just eat what she lost. it just doesnt make any since.



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Re: I dont understand  [message #55888 is a reply to message #55887] Wed, 04 March 2009 21:38 Go to previous messageGo to next message
JimB is currently offline  JimB

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I understand both what you are saying and your confusion, Roger. There is one key word in what you said that does lend some clarification: DEADBEAT. Some women attract that type of guy and are just so glad to have someone who "loves" them that they can't see the truth.

JimB
Re: I dont understand  [message #55889 is a reply to message #55887] Thu, 05 March 2009 05:26 Go to previous message
e is currently offline  e

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This isn't very different than the guy who let his girlfriend move in and then totally supports her. There are lots of deadbeats, not all of them are guys.

The difference is that the girlfriend who gets tired of supporting the guy seems to want someone to force him to pay. The boyfriend who gets tired of supporting the girl kicks her out, then she still wants someone to force him to pay her way.

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