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			Please will you help me by listing the mainstream terms you know for a homosexual man? I will be using many of them in a poll.
			
			
			
			
  
			 
			Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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			I don't think there are many "mainstream" terms - most of them are slang or subcultural. Off-hand, I suppose "homosexual", "urning", "invert", deviant", "sodomite" ... but all of these apart from the first admit of a variety of interpretations which include but are not exclusively limited to gay male activities. 
 
 
The list of slang words and expressions is, of course, vast - I've been called all of those listed below, and a fair few othr ones as well! 
bender 
homo 
fag 
pouf 
queer 
cock-sucker 
ring-licker 
uphill gardener 
player of the pink oboe 
bum-bandit 
fudge-packer 
batting for the other team 
"one of them" 
"an artistic type" 
"a bit theatrical"
			
			
			
			
  
			 
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			I think these are older terms. 
flake  
fruit 
fairy 
 
And I wouldn't be repeating Nw's fag if I included 
faggot, would I? 
 
Are we including words that reference specific types of homosexual men?  These are interesting because they are used exclusively by gay men to refer to other gay men. 
 
Twink 
Bear 
Queen 
Flamin' Queen 
Closet Queen 
 
Non-english like the German Schwuler or the French pédé?  Klingon must have a word for homosexual man.
			
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For brothers to dwell together in unity!  
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			Shirt-lifter isn't on NW's list or maricon on Macky's. 
 
I got these synonyms for homosexual from a thesaurus: 
 
monoclinous, gynandrous, hermaphroditic, homoerotic, homophile, lesbian, Sapphic, androgynous, epicene, gay, effeminate, limp-wristed*, queer*. 
 
Love, 
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			Oh, I can't think how I missed "shift-lifter", Anthony - I've always thought it such a delicious concept with the vague frisson of naughtiness! 
 
And your "maricon" has reminded me of "mariposa" (butterfly) - something that I find charming (if desperately politically incorrect in portraying gay men as beautiful objects of little value and short attention spans). 
 
On a more personal note, my father's favourite put-down for me was "nancy-boy" - I appear to have repressed all memory of it when posting last night.
			
			
			
			
  
			 
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			Yes, NW, I enjoyed being a shirt-lifter, especially when there was a jockstrap under it! 
 
But (to echo your words) I can't think how I missed 'nancy-boy'. 
 
Love, 
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