I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
I'm baffled, Timmy. Why should I not? Since it is natural to me to find people of the same sex attractive, why shouldn't I find it OK?
The problem I have is the other way round. Why should a non-gay think homosexuality is not OK?
It seems obvious to me that there isn't a reason except "Because the priest told me so!" I don't know anywhere else but religion where the hatred of gays arises.
Those of us who were less well indoctrinated or even left undoctrinated had no difficulty in saying to themselves "Well it's obviously natural to me so I reject what the priest says". And in my case I then went to bed with him! But I was 20 so it wasn't paedophilia, quite!
And maybe it throws a little light on things to say it was the same (as far as I was concerned) with racial prejudice (I'm talking 1950s here). I never found black people not OK and was horrified by the prejudice. But in that case it was harder to find religion to blame.