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Spring Break, New Friend, and Stuff  [message #61371] Mon, 15 March 2010 05:09 Go to next message
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Last week i went on spring break. My friend and I decided to go on road trip to Florida. In eight days, we drove 2,200 miles Smile. We stopped in Tampa, Miami, Key West, and Orlando. It was exhausting, fun, crazy, dramatic, and everything in between. Overall, i had an amazing time.

What made this trip even better was my traveling companion. He is a student from Newcastle, England. He is studying at my University for a year and over the past few months we have become quite close friends. He is gay, funny, and very attractive i might add. We talked about doing this trip for a while and as you can probably imagine, we were thrilled to embark on this adventure.

For me it was a learning opportunity. I have been coming to this site for a long time. Most of the people who visit this site are from England. The United States and England, although both sharing similarities, are culturally world's apart. I figured this would be a great opportunity to learn what makes British people 'British'.

My friend and I had a lot of time to talk about everything. Average travel time from city to city was 4-5 hours. The only way to stay awake was to talk or sometimes listen to music. Additionally, we shared a hotel room and went out everyday. We were practically inseparable, i'm surprised we didn't annoy each other too much. His conversations would usually start with... In England we do this and this...and i would follow by saying... In America we do this and this...;-D. It was interesting to realize that in both countries people talk different, and not just in the accent or the words, but the general tone and meaning. The social system is vastly different. For example, my friend feels like child whenever we go out because he can't go to a bar like he was able to back home.

Here are two of my favorite pictures from the trip

Birds one morning
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Disney Castle
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Re: Spring Break, New Friend, and Stuff  [message #61372 is a reply to message #61371] Mon, 15 March 2010 06:24 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Re: Spring Break, New Friend, and Stuff  [message #61373 is a reply to message #61371] Mon, 15 March 2010 07:59 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Make a plan to come to England and do the same type of trip with him here. Megaman and I do it each year to a different part. We make a rough plan and drive. We stay in Bed and Breakfast places (very small guesthouses) that we don;t bother to book for, but just arrive.

We see a lot of stuff, but most of the trip is the company.

And wow, you can understand the Newcastle accent!



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Re: Spring Break, New Friend, and Stuff  [message #61375 is a reply to message #61373] Mon, 15 March 2010 12:22 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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The accent is tricky....I just force myself to really pay attention. I don't catch everything all the time, sometimes he forgets and starts speaking too fast, but I do my best to listen carefully. Maybe it helps that English is not my first language so I'm able to pay closer attention to the unique way people say things. It's funny cause sometimes I serve as his unofficial translator because people are like " what did he said???". 90% of the people can't understand when he says his name (Mark). He is afraid to even say it lol. I have to repeat it all the time.



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Re: Spring Break, New Friend, and Stuff  [message #61381 is a reply to message #61375] Mon, 15 March 2010 17:49 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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The Geordie accent is tough for us here, too!

So what about the idea of a road trip in the UK?



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Re: Spring Break, New Friend, and Stuff  [message #61382 is a reply to message #61381] Mon, 15 March 2010 17:56 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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He has invited me to go over there. Maybe during the summer when he goes back home. Sometime in june I think.

I would love to visit England. I have a 'thing' for English boys anyways.



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Re: Spring Break, New Friend, and Stuff  [message #61384 is a reply to message #61382] Mon, 15 March 2010 18:04 Go to previous message
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June is excellent, good long days and usually decent weather. Plan on a two week minimum visit, and research what you would like to do and visit. Do this thing!



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