I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
Location: UK, in Devon
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Was that there was so much extra stuff awaiting his return that it could become a challenge to read. The stuff that was valuable could so easily have become submerged unless we used good housekeeping, so that is what I think we should do.
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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I am gay, not bisexual, yet in love with and married to a gorgeous lady. It works for us, though we had a rough patch a dozen years ago that lasted for about 6 years where she realised that yes, I am gay.
For each of us it is suboptimal, and yet it works.
I married for love, not convention, but I suspect it would not have been on the agenda had I not been convention-bound.
I'm out to all my family, to the disgust of one cousin. His loss. I'm out to those whom it will not affect negatively in my friends, and, if anyone cares to look at my blog or facebook or twitter they will see that I am an out gay man.