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icon5.gif A physical emotion?  [message #63089] Mon, 26 July 2010 19:50 Go to next message
timmy

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I'm not actually sure how to express the question I want to ask. Let me try to explain. There are days when I absolutely crave sex. I don't mean "gosh, I fancy him" or "I wish the boy I loved..." craving, I mean good old fashioned undirected need but not lust.

I don't mean getting erect, I don't mean having a wank, I mean something more intangible, indefinable, but I do mean physical.

To try and describe it, all I can do is talk about a physical internal emptiness. I can feel the sex I want, but as an absence. I imagine it is the inverse of the presence I want. You know when erotic stories talk about some sort of opening up and embracing anal penetration? It feels very much like I imagine that would be, yet the inverse. Where the stories speak of fullness, I speak of a physical emptiness.

Am I unique, or do you recognise in any way what I'm talking about?

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Re: A physical emotion?  [message #63091 is a reply to message #63089] Tue, 27 July 2010 09:01 Go to previous messageGo to next message
acam is currently offline  acam

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Yes, of course, Timmy.

Times when I crave the touch and the release. And like you I don't mean by that the wank and the orgasm.

There are a few things I recognise that bring it on too. Sunbathing, time spent with delightful people, time spent people watching or reading love stories, as well as obvious things such as lengthy abstinence or looking at porn.
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Anthony
Re: A physical emotion?  [message #63122 is a reply to message #63091] Sat, 31 July 2010 05:24 Go to previous message
ray2x is currently offline  ray2x

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I'm not sure if this is what you mean. For my boyfriend of youth and I, our physical emotion was our kiss. It meant a number of things between us: prelude to sex, a greeting, a momento, a breaking of a longing to be with one another, bonding, a last goodbye, an erotic touch, a taste of one another, plus many more feelings and emotions. These are the moments I felt were the physical part of our relationship.


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