I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
Location: U.S.
Registered: November 2009
Messages: 630
I wonder Hermes, do they grind that axe before or after they masturbate?
When I was young, I'd say during the 1960's, no adolescent boy would readily admit to masturbation. A lie very much like how every boy had done it with a girl once, a fantasy to deny virginity and inexperience.
I remember sitting around a campfire in Boy Scouts with a small group of 13-14 year olds (I was one myself) when the masturbation question came up, all denied it except me. I said it felt great so why not do it? I then proceeded to describe in infinite detail all the sexual feelings and fantasies that drove me to flog my penis. There wasn't a limp cock left in the bunch after about five minutes and several excused themselves to...well you know.
That was my adolescent power trip, the confidence that I could arouse other boys with words. It was quite useful. Now I write about it.
As for Ms. Christine O'Donnell. This whole political tea party nonsense has attracted all the lunatics in the nation. The best part is that they are grouping together where we can observe their insanity. I would venture she had association with some right wing Christian group all those years ago and thus the video. We know she never masturbated, don't we? ;-D
Age appears to be best in four things; old wood best to burn, old wine to drink, old friends to trust, and old authors to read. (Sir Francis Bacon 1561-1626)
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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I was perfectly happy in the 1960s to admit I masturbated. We learnt about it in school by discussing it. Peer group is fine, but parents are not things to include in that discussion!
When I was 17 my mother asked "Do you masturbate, dear?"
What did the silly bitch think? And why did she ask?
Before she died I asked her. She denied ever asking me.