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I am 15, from England, and am really confused. I need to know what I am and if there are any other people like myself out there. Well heres my problem:
I like a girl who I have fanceyed for a year and a half or so, and I really want to go out with her and When I am older I really want to get married and have children, but I have also had a crush on a friend of mine.......who is a boy and I feel really weird. I have been given a handjob by another boy and I returned that, but I have never done anything with this friend, who I like. When I masturbate his face keeps coming in my mind, but then Chloes face comes in and takes over then my friends face comes back and it is almost like a fight between them. After masturbation I have practically forgotten about this boy, and Chloe is in my mind agin.
Now I really am confused and want to know is what is happening to me normal. Like I said I want to be straight when I am older, but what are my chances if I feel like this now?
I know I have proberly bored you all to tears, but I would love to hear from you, and any advice you may have.
thanks.
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Hello,
I wanted to respond to your message. I too have had a similar experience. Like you, I've enjoyed the company of truely wonderful girls. But I've also been very close to a couple of my guy friends. It's such a rough time and age to go thru. I know how confusing it is. THere are no easy answers that I can think of to tell you, however, I wanted to let you kow that I too have shared that kind of dilema. I've survived and come to think that I simply have feelings for people. Guys, girls. Doesn't seem to matter much to me. It's not an easy path to follow. I wish when I was your age that I had known that others felt like me. Please feel free to contact me directly if you feel the need to talk. By simply asking, I'll happily send you my ICQ and /or AOL name and number. Until then, be happy and safe.
Rick
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I don't know whether you are gay or str8. Nor do you. Nor will it become clear for some time. Orientation is not a fixed thing, but develops. Regrettably I found for myself that nothing you can do will alter it.
I think the main thing to be able to do is to become comfortable with yourself. Kepe talking, and fo not lable yourself as gay, nor str8, not bi. But be WHO you are. Orientation has little to do with SELF. It is a small part.
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Some of us are gay, some are straight, some are bisexual. Some people know when they are very young, and some never truly know. Some choose to label themselves one way and some choose to not label themselves at all.
Just be yourself. Your sexual orientation is the not the know-all and end-all of who you are as a person. It's one of the smallest bits of who you are. Don't ever limit yourself to some label; you aren't what people label you, you are TROY - the person. End of story.
*huggles* So if you want to chat with me further, just send me an email or ask me here on the board and I'll let you know how to further contact me 
Peace out. Catch ya on da flip side.
-=jalaki=-
"You may say that I'm a dreamer,
But I'm not the only one."
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thanks alot for all your advice, it has seemed to help, because I have realised you do not NEED to put a lable on yourself.....I will just be me.
Any futher advice or questions that would help you help me please email me at blunderdale@yahoo.co.uk
Thanks again
Troy
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Re: What am I???? 
What Tim said is right... 
