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icon4.gif Bickering will not continue  [message #5645] Sun, 03 November 2002 10:25 Go to next message
timmy

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I want this abundantly clear.

Bickering will not continue.

I would like all who feel like answering this post in any way,positive or negative, to understand that I am not interested in public affirmations of support, not in people who disagree with this and choose to say so.

Bickering will not continue.

This board was created out of the chaos of several other places where bickering and backbiting and backstabbing was rife.

Here, bickering will not continue.

If this place goes silent for a few days while everyone who is fighting considers what they do, so be it.

But bickering will not continue.

I will not take this place offline. Not even if those of you who are old enough to know better deluge it with "stuff" that is totally against its puropse. Nor will I ban anyone here, nor will I even bother to have a "quiet word behind the scenes".

I just want you to be very clear.

Bickering will not continue.

Though I care about each and every one of you, and though perhaps some of you find that hard to believe, I will not shed tears if any who feel that bickering and fighting have a place here choose to vanish.

I wonder, are we all getting the message? Bickering will not continue.

BUT, I will leave the messages or delete them at my sole discretion with or without warning. I do not care if they are from someone I love or someone I just know. Or from a hitherto unseen lurking person. If they are hurtful to another, they go. Period.

I have better things to do than this.

I am disappointed. Not even angry. Just disappointed.



Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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