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tim...of usa
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Location: buffalo, new york...USA
Registered: July 2002
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ok so ed and i went out for coffee this evening and then came back to my house and watched 2 movies while snuggling on the couch....I so love to snuggle.
any ways he is as scared and freaked out by how we click as i am and he is really trying to work things out in his head and heart....its now 4:06 am here he just left and i have to get up for work in like 54 min...so whats the point of going to bed now?
well i have to wait till he gets home and signes on line anyways so i can tell him good nihgt and sweet dreams.
thanks for your support and good thoughts
i will keep you posted on all this.
peace
tim... of USA
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I wish you all the best Timmer. Be good to him, you're a great guy, he couldn't do any better when choosing you!
And snuggling... Yeah, I totally agree, snuggling is SO AWESOME!
-L
PS: Please chat with me a bit some day ok?
"But he that hath the steerage of my course,
direct my sail."
-William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, Act One, Scene IV
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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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There must be something in his life where he has been let down by his feelings. If you want this relationship, and I think you do, make it posisble (you are) for him to feel comfortable with coming and going for a bit. The problem is this will feel as though you are being jerked around. You're man enough to give him the slack he needs and to realise that you are helping him solve his own issues EVEN if it hurts you on the way.
Commitment is scary. So is love. Returned love also hurts sometimes. No easy answer.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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Darren
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I just came back after a long break, and I saw your posts regarding ED. I think it is great that things got worked out over new years. It seams like you two may have a good thing going hear. I wish the best of luck to both of you. My only query is why "clicking" is scary. This is what most people hope for. Maybe he is just worried about rejection.
Darren
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tim...of usa
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Location: buffalo, new york...USA
Registered: July 2002
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ok the scary part about finding some one you click with really well is we both keep getting this feeling that...this is too good to be true....if that makes any sense.
add to that the fact that we are both EXPERTS in rejection so it makes us both ready for shit to hit the fan and get hurt.
peace
tim...of USA
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tim...of usa
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or the room we both need.
and snuggling is way better than sex in my book....hehehe
thanks J man
peace
tim...of USA
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Location: currently So Cal
Registered: May 2002
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Wining (pun intended) and crying work wonders sometimes, don't they?
It's really good to hear that things are working out. You BOTH deserve it. Take it slow and easy. Fear of rejection can be a powerful thing and it can be difficult to trust a relationship well enough to leap in with both feet once you've experienced it. I'm happy for both of you.
Think good thoughts,
e
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Oh thank goodness you're still MORE than friendly... Sweet! 
This sounds GREAT !! 
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