I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
I never got to really know The Scholar. "Robert" if i may? Every post and reply has brought tears to my eyes, even as i type this. I hope to find someone to love and care for someday as the two of you have. As for now, I have my online family here, and hope that you join the ranks with the rest. I know you will find open arms with any of us for a hug, just wish it could be a real one. So for now, here's a couple.
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
However firstname.lastname@example.org is a place to write at present with even mundane chit chat. Stephen checks the mail there. And he has the weekend to get through. it is his first weekend of reality. Last weekend he was in shock. Now the funeral is over and reality is present.
The funeral was difficult, possibly because they were a gay couple. That sucks. But it is a fact.
So put hand to keyboard, please, and write to Stephen. Offer what you feel able to in friendship and help him to take it day by day until he can breathe again.
Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
Location: North UK
Registered: August 2016
Gosh- The warmth and friendliness of this site never ceases to amaze me.
If I had to think of single words to describe how I feel here, it would have to start with safe, or perhaps secure.
Where the heck have I been all my life?