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Mode of dress  [message #70712] Sat, 02 January 2016 13:40 Go to previous message
timmy

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Why do we make such a big thing out of mode of dress.

Ignoring the clichéed coquettish porn pose, consider this young gentleman:

http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=2211&private=0http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=2210&private=0

Now, the clothing doesn't suit him, not really, but why should sheer stockings, high heels and dresses be restricted to the ladies? And why do we call a man wearing them a transvestite or cross dresser and consider it a sexual fetish?

In past centuries the male wore more peacockery than the female.

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