I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
Registered: October 2006
For many years I never entertained the idea that I would bottom for anyone. I always saw myself as a top even though or maybe because my early experiences were either those of being sexually abused, or playing the part of a sub bottom for a "daddy". Hence it was rather shockingly revealing to me about myself some years back when I encountered a 20 something guy with whom I never questioned the idea that he would be the top. It seemed as natural as eating breakfast. The idea of being dominated never entered into it for me, at least in the moment. It was only aftewards that I pondered it and realized that in a benign sort of way being dominated was much of the appeal, which made subsequent encounters with him even more enjoyable. Thankfully I was aware enough, due my experiences as a teen, that there were certain physical considerations necessary to mitigate the pain, because I'm definitely not into being "wrecked"
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“There's no grays, only white that's got grubby. I'm surprised you don't know that. And sin, young man, is when you treat people as things. Including yourself. That's what sin is.” - Terry Pratchett