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 Topic: I think I have solved a blockage
I think I have solved a blockage  [message #75131] Thu, 08 November 2018 16:12
timmy   United Kingdom

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McAfee has the main site on its database. This morning, UK time, it was Pornography and unverified for potential harm. I doscovered this when someone told me why they were unable to follow a link to the site.

I asked McAfee to change it and we are now displayed thus:

http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4893&private=0

I thought to compare us with Nifty:

http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4894&private=0

I think the reputation column is probably the important one



Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
 Topic: The Puppy Express!
The Puppy Express!  [message #75077] Sat, 03 November 2018 12:26
timmy   United Kingdom

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http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4860&private=0
http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4861&private=0
http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4862&private=0
http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4863&private=0
http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4864&private=0
http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=4865&private=0



Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
 Topic: Ye gods. Vibrator discrimination!
Ye gods. Vibrator discrimination!  [message #75032] Sat, 27 October 2018 10:39
timmy   United Kingdom

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I read this article following by this one today. I also am the proud owner of a small collection of dildos and vibtarors. And the thing that pisses me off is the fact that these toys are represented by the mainstream media as toys for women.

I own a prostate, and I get it checked out every so often to ensure it is healthy, because I want to keep it. And I love stimulating it with toys. As a young teenager I even invented my own electro-stim system from a toy morse code set and worked out how to use that anally. In short, the prostate is a glorious piece of male sexual anatomy.

Not for the mainstream media, though. Penetration is only for the girls in the maintstream media!



Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
 Topic: India legalizes gay sex
India legalizes gay sex  [message #74836] Sat, 08 September 2018 05:40
Mark   United States

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For those who may not have heard, India just rescinded a law that was written all the way back in the 1860's banning gay sex.
 Topic: Women caned in Malaysia for attempting to have lesbian sex
Women caned in Malaysia for attempting to have lesbian sex  [message #74825] Mon, 03 September 2018 13:34
timmy   United Kingdom

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I have followed the story of the women caned in Malaysia for attempting to have lesbian sex with serious distaste. Today I have realised that it is also pornographic, as well as being sexist and anti LGBT as a whole.

Caning women shows a certain kind of dominant mentality. It doesn't matter what their sexuality might be. What matters is that women are generally idolised by society, and making them suffer is part of the wonderful(!) dreams of porn sites. I'm not expressing this very well. Perhaps you might try to do better.

I see this in its own way as BDSM rape, backed by the full panoply of religion and some sort of stance with the law.



Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
 Topic: Gorgeous Simplicity
Gorgeous Simplicity  [message #74555] Sun, 15 July 2018 17:43
Dominick St James is currently offline  Dominick St James   United Kingdom

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http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=1693&private=0

                                  "G o r g e o u s !"
 Topic: Copyright Infringement at Dreamhost.com
Copyright Infringement at Dreamhost.com  [message #74530] Sat, 07 July 2018 07:33
timmy   United Kingdom

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I have just been told about a site that scrapes this one and have sent the following Cease and Desist notice to theior hosting company:

This regards your user, listed below. They are In breach of my copyright, stated clearly on http://iomfats.org and http://forum.iomfats.org.

Today I had this address drawn to my attention: http://www.brooketoczylowski.com/wp-content/wverrors.php?KEn AC=iomfats


There are many other copyright infringements on this site, located on your servers. This is a formal CEASE AND DESIST notice. Your customer is in breach of your terms and conditions, and of my copyright, together with the copyrights of many people who use my site.

This content MUST be removed

DOMAIN INFORMATION
Domain:brooketoczylowski.com
Registrar:DreamHost, LLC
Registration Date:2010-04-03
Expiration Date:2019-04-03
Updated Date:2018-03-31
Status:ok
Name Servers:ns1.dreamhost.com
ns2.dreamhost.com
ns3.dreamhost.com

[Updated on: Sat, 07 July 2018 07:34]




Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
 Topic: Of anniversaries
Of anniversaries  [message #74459] Thu, 14 June 2018 10:26
timmy   United Kingdom

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Today one of the boys I was infatuated with is 62! I still think of him fondly, though were were truly nothing to each other. He is the boy I was outed over in school. Though not flattered by the photographs he was gorgeous. He was also a huge flirt. He knew he was attractive, and knew I found him attractive. If I'd known him I might have come to love him rather than just finding him a hugely erotic and unattainable object of great desire.

Anniversaries such as this get me wondering about what might have been, yet I know they would never have been.



Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
 Topic: Good morning beautiful buddies.
Good morning beautiful buddies.  [message #74163] Thu, 15 March 2018 08:19
mike033273 is currently offline  mike033273   Uganda

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Hey friends how's your life, I known its difficult based on your ways how you in pass day to day.
Anyway happy mid month buddies.



surviver
 Topic: Next step
Next step  [message #74109] Thu, 01 March 2018 14:13
mike033273 is currently offline  mike033273   Uganda

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HAPPY NEW MONTH.
Feb was very difficult to some but we stepped to march , work harder and stay alive friends because we're together stronger.

HAPPY NEW MONTH!!!!



surviver
 Topic: Greeting to all buddies
Greeting to all buddies  [message #74095] Sat, 24 February 2018 20:27
mike033273 is currently offline  mike033273   Uganda

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Hey friends it was hard time based in how each spend this life.
What i may say am glad to met everyone again and HAPPY WEEKEND.



surviver
 Topic: True Love knows no boundaries
True Love knows no boundaries  [message #74071] Sat, 17 February 2018 09:53
timmy   United Kingdom

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https://twitter.com/BrendonGumede/status/963835112667394049

This tweet and video is heartwarming. The replies beneath it show stereotypical replies by christo-fascists ad the legacy of the British Empire

I'd embed the video if I could



Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
 Topic: Surprises of Valentine
Surprises of Valentine  [message #74055] Sun, 11 February 2018 13:27
mike033273 is currently offline  mike033273   Uganda

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Friends how's weekend
We're currently remains with four days for Valentine day .
How are you gonna surprised your partner on this moment.



surviver
 Topic: Get prepared
Get prepared  [message #74039] Fri, 09 February 2018 21:13
mike033273 is currently offline  mike033273   Uganda

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winter it's coming



surviver
 Topic: Daily inspirational
icon10.gif Daily inspirational  [message #74020] Tue, 06 February 2018 19:32
mike033273 is currently offline  mike033273   Uganda

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beautiful it's interesting



surviver
 Topic: Beautiful its great
Beautiful its great  [message #74019] Tue, 06 February 2018 16:17
mike033273 is currently offline  mike033273   Uganda

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It's nice to be cute ,everybody always focused on you.



surviver
 Topic: Black Americans day
Black Americans day  [message #74015] Mon, 05 February 2018 22:20
mike033273 is currently offline  mike033273   Uganda

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cute is black so proud of it.

[Updated on: Wed, 07 February 2018 07:56]




surviver
 Topic: Lonely lonely boy ,looking for company.
Lonely lonely boy ,looking for company.  [message #74014] Mon, 05 February 2018 22:05
mike033273 is currently offline  mike033273   Uganda

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Stop hiding you're not alone

[Updated on: Mon, 05 February 2018 22:08]




surviver
 Topic: inspiration
inspiration  [message #73976] Thu, 01 February 2018 18:43
mike033273 is currently offline  mike033273   Uganda

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Its Glad to some for you

[Updated on: Thu, 01 February 2018 19:21]




surviver
 Topic: Greatest
Greatest   [message #73899] Thu, 18 January 2018 22:08
mike033273 is currently offline  mike033273   Uganda

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wish to visit with my favourite only!!



surviver
 Topic: inspirational
inspirational  [message #73898] Thu, 18 January 2018 22:03
mike033273 is currently offline  mike033273   Uganda

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You're the type of boy I'd make a sandwich for .
you're the type of boy that get a love.



surviver
 Topic: inspiration
inspiration  [message #73897] Thu, 18 January 2018 21:59
mike033273 is currently offline  mike033273   Uganda

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Distance isn't an issue because in the end, I have you.



surviver
 Topic: A TED talk that is worth watching
A TED talk that is worth watching  [message #73857] Wed, 10 January 2018 22:45
timmy   United Kingdom

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It isn't short, but it is interesting.




Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
 Topic: Golden
Golden  [message #73849] Mon, 08 January 2018 15:40
timmy   United Kingdom

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Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
 Topic: mike033273
mike033273  [message #73839] Sun, 07 January 2018 22:17
mike033273 is currently offline  mike033273   Uganda

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It have been Long week of first in January but God always and still for all thanks.



surviver
 Topic: Thanksgiving poem
Thanksgiving poem  [message #73655] Thu, 23 November 2017 01:27
Mark   United States

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Twas the night of Thanksgiving, but I just couldn't sleep
I tried counting backwards, I tried counting sheep.
The leftovers beckoned the dark meat and white
But I fought the temptation with all of my might
Tossing and turning with anticipation
The thought of a snack became infatuation.
So I raced to the kitchen, flung open the door
And gazed at the fridge, full of goodies galore.
I gobbled up turkey and buttered potatoes,
Pickles and carrots, beans and tomatoes.
I felt myself swelling so plump and so round
'Til all of a sudden, I rose off the ground.
I crashed through the ceiling, floating into the sky
With a mouthful of pudding and a handful of pie.
But, I managed to yell as I soared past the trees...
Happy eating to all - pass the cranberries, please.
May your stuffing be tasty, may your turkey be plump.
May your potatoes 'n gravy have nary a lump,
May your yams be delicious, may your pies take the prize,
May your Thanksgiving dinner stay off of your thighs.
 Topic: Homophobia makes no sense!
Homophobia makes no sense!  [message #73526] Sun, 15 October 2017 13:49
timmy   United Kingdom

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Peter White explains why getting mad at a man hitting on you [assuming you are not gay] is like getting mad at someone for giving you free money.

[Updated on: Sun, 15 October 2017 13:50]




Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
 Topic: Of Preacher Men's Sons and the Trevor Project
Of Preacher Men's Sons and the Trevor Project  [message #72912] Tue, 23 May 2017 10:26
timmy   United Kingdom

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An interesting take on an old song. I sang it this way in my head so often for so long



Also I found it oddly reminiscent of 



But, on a brighter note



That somehow always moved me to tears, especially when I was sitting watching TV with my parents unable to speak

[Updated on: Tue, 23 May 2017 10:49]




Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
 Topic: How Does Abbey Kyeyune prove he is gay?
How Does Abbey Kyeyune prove he is gay?  [message #72748] Sun, 12 March 2017 15:43
timmy   United Kingdom

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He is to be deported because he has failed to prove it.

Put this into your own context. You are in a foreign country and will face real harm if you cannot prove you are gay. You do not have any friends or family available to you at all, ever.  Now, prove you are gay.



Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
 Topic: An amusement park ride I'd like to see...
An amusement park ride I'd like to see...  [message #72717] Sat, 04 March 2017 15:54
Mark   United States

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Something I found on my various Internet travels.  Granted, a part of me says it might be photo shopped, considering the source, but still...

http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=3277&private=0
 Topic: Part of the "I'm from Driftwood" archive
Part of the "I'm from Driftwood" archive  [message #72686] Wed, 01 March 2017 08:25
timmy   United Kingdom

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Never try to outsmart a bright, logical person.



Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
 Topic: Deprecated words, insults and attacks
Deprecated words, insults and attacks  [message #72658] Sun, 26 February 2017 11:56
timmy   United Kingdom

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Please read the first five bullets of the netiquette announcement. They do cover this matter. This announcement here, today, is a temporary measure to draw attention to my intense displeasure at their breach


I dislike political epithets such as the one being bandied around that is a portmanteau of 'liberal' and 'retard' Indeed I deprecate the use of 'retard' to indicate any form of intellectual capacity, and will treat continued use of such words to be an indication that the person deploying them is making a conscious choice not to be part of the forum.

Deploying such words is, of itself, an ad hominem insult to and attack on those against whom it is being used, whether directed at another with precision or directed at a group in general. Continual deployment from this point in indicates to me that I may need to enforce the decision to quit made by the repeated user of such terms.

I do not care whether or not those words are used in common parlance.

I will not have this place reduced to bear baiting nor cock fighting. Put plain, it is not going to happen.

I can, and will, filter future deployment of such words in a manner to make the poster look ridiculous, if I have to. Please remember that this forum is a benevolent dictatorship, run by me. It will not descend into chaos

[Updated on: Tue, 28 February 2017 08:46]




Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
 Topic: Retro Inspiration
Retro Inspiration  [message #72422] Tue, 10 January 2017 18:09
affies oupa is currently offline  affies oupa   United States

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http://forum.iomfats.org/?t=getfile&id=3177&private=0

I'm sure I'm not the only guy here old enough to have had a boyhood crush on David Robinson who played Midshipman Harvey Crawford in the 1962 "HMS DEFIANT." In those days, for a quarter, you could spend all day in the movies. The main feature, cartoons, news reels, coming attractions... not to mention nickel popcorn and nickel Cokes. I was eleven, and this boy was my wanking fantasy for several weeks. A bit of retro inspiration.



Affies oupa

Good boys go to heaven... bad boys go everywhere.
 Topic: PRIDE: You Can't Heal If You're Hiding from Yourself ~ Ronald Holt
PRIDE: You Can't Heal If You're Hiding from Yourself ~ Ronald Holt   [message #72312] Sat, 17 December 2016 16:27
timmy   United Kingdom

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I am recommending this sight unseen. PRIDE: You Can't Heal If You're Hiding from Yourself is free right now. You need either a Kindle or the Kindle App.



Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
 Topic: Welcome Nigel Gordon
Welcome Nigel Gordon  [message #72248] Wed, 07 December 2016 09:04
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I'm delighted to see that Nigel joined us yesterday. For those who don't know his writing, you are in for a treat.
 Topic: New - anyone up for chatting?
New - anyone up for chatting?  [message #71935] Wed, 05 October 2016 16:40
skallagrigg is currently offline  skallagrigg   United Kingdom

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Hi
I'm new here and just wondered if anyone was interested in chatting?
If so please private message me?
thanks Smile
 Topic: On Masculinity
On Masculinity  [message #71845] Thu, 01 September 2016 14:33
timmy   United Kingdom

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Sometimes, wearing my Clark Kent glasses and baggy reporter's suit, I make guest posts on a psychotherapist's blog.

This is one such and the persona is segregated from my persona here. If oyu make comments there, and I hope you will, please omit references to this site.

[Updated on: Thu, 01 September 2016 14:35]




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 Topic: Hello. :)
Hello. :)  [message #71802] Tue, 16 August 2016 21:04
Josh is currently offline  Josh   Canada

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Hello people of this awesome place! <3

I hope you're all doing well.
J is here, or Josh, whichever.
I just wanted to maybe extend a pleasant invitation to be friends. Smile
I don't have very man physical friends where I am.. Doesn't really help that most simple things are rather difficult for me.
Buut anyway. I won't go into that here^^;

Take care everyone. And thanks for reading my poems that I post in the forum. I do appreciate it. And I hope they can help you in some way.
I know a lot of them are dark poems. I guess I'm good at it.. Most of the time, life is just a little lonely.. But that's okay too. I know we can't talk to each other all the time.

So if you want to be friends, or if you need someone to talk to, I'll be here for you. Promise.
Take care. And stay safe and happy.

~J
 Topic: Yesterday's downtime
Yesterday's downtime  [message #71798] Tue, 16 August 2016 07:07
timmy   United Kingdom

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We had a major period of time yesterday and running into this morning, UK time, when the site was inaccessible. So was our hosting provider.

We have concluded that this was because someone had messed up a routing table, and pretty much screwed everyone over in that data centre.

As I am sure you realise, this was their cockup, but it was our arse that suffered.

Thank you for those who emailed to say "The site is down" all of which arrived when the site returned. When the domain is inaccessible that is also true for email. The sending and receiving of emails is impossible in that situation.

All you have to remember is it was a cockup, and that our arse bore the brunt of it. Their cockup, our arse!

[Updated on: Tue, 16 August 2016 07:25]




Inconsistent use of capital letters is the difference between Bobby helping Uncle Jack off a horse, AND Bobby helping uncle jack off a horse!
 Topic: The world of the disabled longing for sex
icon14.gif The world of the disabled longing for sex  [message #71061] Wed, 10 February 2016 14:05
timmy   United Kingdom

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Every day our news aggregator collates news from around the world and published it. This caught my eye today. I commend it to you.



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