I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13754
I was called away suddenly. My father in law was hospitalised and looked set to die. We have been holding his hand. He died at 4:50am UK time today. We are just back after a 7 hour car trip from his home.
Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13754
He is one of them, perhaps the first of his generation to die, that I will miss. I learned form his friends when I phoned them on his wife's behalf that he was a man who did substantial good things and caused others to make them happen for others, always as a leader and always behind the scenes.
You will never find his name on a plaque, but you will find it in many hearts.