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icon8.gif Re: No, not at  [message #11664 is a reply to message #11662] Sat, 21 June 2003 12:32 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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all hail the King of this message board.Let all bow and humble ourselves before our master--Lord Saben..Dear gentle sir we have had words before and that was an unpleasent experience.YOU have suggested a private word off this board via e-mail.That should have been done before you posted before.THIS REPLY SHOULD NOT BE TAKEN AS A FLAME.My lifewalk,the things I have done and perhaps left undone entitle me to a decent respect to the opins of my peers.Many on this board have gently at times reminded me to modify my responses.Others really jumped on my case.But ALL have done so with grace and good wishes.You sir,I note venom and biased judgement.I fimd that unacceptable.I hear your words as a ill wind,without care or compassion.With all due respect sir,your words fall on deaf ears.HAVE A NICE LIFE..rob
icon4.gif Having good fun?  [message #11676 is a reply to message #11664] Sat, 21 June 2003 18:33 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Well, I don't think that's what this board is about. Read the top of the page again, please, my friend. Fun isn't mentioned.

Please consider Garrett's point of view (which it DOES say to do at the top of the board.) He is new here and came here looking for someone to talk seriously to about some very personal stuff. I sounds like it was tough for him to speak up in the first place, and I am proud of him for that. We know he's been abused, and he doesn't trust adults much, but except for a few he's gotten to know better, that's about all "we", the general board readers, know.

You imply an interest in having sex with him and say:

"i wasnt kidding.hehehe---i could use another slave in my cold cruel empire.lots of bondage,whippings and assorted outrages too numerous to mention.oh and the gruel I feed to my subject slaves will grow hair on ones tongue...rob"

Hell, I wasn't even playing with myself yet at 14, let alone know how to handle old dudes who may or may not be coming on to me, or bondage. I'm not saying treat him like a baby which he certainly isn't, just realize "where he is" in life.

*I* know your joking and just having fun, Rob, but you can do that with those of us who understand and appreciate your fun. Just like Andy and Garrett can say "shut up" to each other - they know that that has a different meaning and implied jokingness that others may not catch. I'm not saying we should only talk to those in our age group - I'm saying we need to consider how our words will be taken by those we write to.

Saben was reasonable above, there was no personal attack, he wasn't ordering you around.

We all have needs and "issues" to deal with, but while you, Rob, can deal with almost anything "verbal", and even learn from "negative" comments sometimes, not everyone is like that.

Just think about it, K, hon? You know I only play with the nice boys!
icon6.gif Re: Having good fun?  [message #11678 is a reply to message #11676] Sat, 21 June 2003 19:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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in no way was there any suggestion of sex or bondage.Afterall,I just got through turning Garrett into a frog.PS im not into frogs although I think their cute but not in a sexual way.I still think you guys(with all due respect) take yourselves too seriously and respond with a kneejerk reaction.Further,and again with all due respect,I do offer respect and compassion to these youth and credit them with the smarts not to take offense.Now I will spell that out.I just think that these kids display more smarts than some adults on this board.Robert is just a tease,harmless at best.One other thing--I make it a practice to read a post several times before commenting.I have a good if not excellent grasp of symantics and word context and can easily understand and comprehend what people say without bias.printed words are pretty clear,it being a waste of time taking words and a persons meaning out of context.I dont grease my words as I need that grease for other things....rob
icon6.gif Re: Having good fun?  [message #11679 is a reply to message #11676] Sat, 21 June 2003 19:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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in no way was there any suggestion of sex or bondage.Afterall,I just got through turning Garrett into a frog.PS im not into frogs although I think their cute but not in a sexual way.I still think you guys(with all due respect) take yourselves too seriously and respond with a kneejerk reaction.Further,and again with all due respect,I do offer respect and compassion to these youth and credit them with the smarts not to take offense.Now I will spell that out.I just think that these kids display more smarts than some adults on this board.Robert is just a tease,harmless at best.One other thing--I make it a practice to read a post several times before commenting.I have a good if not excellent grasp of symantics and word context and can easily understand and comprehend what people say without bias.printed words are pretty clear,it being a waste of time taking words and a persons meaning out of context.I dont grease my words as I need that grease for other things....rob
Re: You can't....... No one can!!!!!!!!!!!!  [message #11713 is a reply to message #11629] Mon, 23 June 2003 22:26 Go to previous message
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if that is regarding the love, yes, I can.

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