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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
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Yesterday, at the gym, a major oddity. No, not me!
There was a late teen early 20s guy. Not at all good looking. On the skinny side of skinny, black hair and transparent complexion. Not well built, not good looking. Just exercising.
So not my type at all.
So, what made me spend the entire session looking to see where he was and to fantasise about him? he was SO not the type i look at once, let alone twice.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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marc
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Registered: March 2003
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He had a dick and was breathing......
what more does it take?
Life is great for me... Most of the time... But then I meet people online... Very few are real friends... Many say they are but know nothing of what it means... Some say they are, but are so shallow...
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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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It was so weird. He just seemed to be "ony display" kind of. Not advertising, not posing, but so "present"
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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robert bryce
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I am still crying after reading this post..Dear friend this is not like you at all..I do hope you are feeling better..I am glad that this board is growing so well,,bambam sure adds spice to the mix,,one heck of a nice guy..David is still being David,but this is not a perfect world ..rob
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timmy
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At school I found an enormous numvber of biys to want. But not to have. And since then a steady stream of lustable young men have passed through my gaze. And by no means all are cute. But all have that something.
The second part of your post. Become a briyt. Stiffen the upper lip. I is how one reacts that talks of the man inside.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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that only one kind of person is hot? Are you attracted to only blonde guys with big muscles? Personally for me I find myself attracted to guys all the time, and I think 'Why the heck am I attracted to him?'
My friend the other day hit me when I mentioned a guy was cute. He said, "God Kevin, he is a geek!"
But to me he was, well lets say if he asked me to kiss him, I would.
Don't know if this will help any, but that is me.
Kevin
"Be excellent to each other, and, party on dudes"!
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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
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You know, the type you turnm your head for in the street. But more and more it is less and less relevant.
Must be pheremones
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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You turn your head for one guy while I may turn for another. So what is your "type"?
Curious George
"Be excellent to each other, and, party on dudes"!
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Hey Timmy...I'm thinking about 2 things that haven't been mentioned yet. First, maybe your type is expanding and changing as you age and mature...that's a good thing, from my point of view.
The second thing might be that you were just more "in the mood" and receptive that day for some reason. It's not spring, so spring wasn't in the air...hehe8-)
"Always forgive your enemies...nothing annoys them quite so much." Oscar Wilde
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Timmy, sometimes without knowing it, I am looking at a guy... and ask myself the same questions you pose here....
One time I really looked at a guy and also looked inside myself to see why I was attracted to this guy... who, like your guy at the gym... was not at all my type... and this is what I found was attracting me to him...
1. His eyes... just one of those "somethings" about his eyes i couldn't explain...
2. His mouth. Just the shape of it.
3. His face structure... it was great and if he substantially changed his physique, he had a lot of potential to be very pretty.
But as he was, he had not "my kind of atraction" to me.
Does this make sense???? I mean... sometimes who knows???? Like Marc said... maybe it was because he simply had equipment.... AND Pheromones !!!!!!
Good Luck trying to figure it out....
Smiles and Peace....
BamBam
Celebrate your life... embrace your love... Become intimate with your place in forever !!!
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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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It's not an expansion of type, though. Oh maybe it is.... When I get chatting it become personality. But that was pretty much always true. But this wasn't chatting.
And I have no idea why I looked once, let alone twice.
~giggles~ I wonder if he was wearing that "Attract the opposite sex" stuff from the Spam emails? If so he has a shock coming, coz it works for all genders!
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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oh that's so easy.
As a class the most infinitely preferable is slim, brightest piercing blue eyes and platinum blind hair. With a cheeky smile and subtly rosy cheeks. Not tall not short. Winsome
My head always turns for blonds. It's inbuilt.
And yet I've always appreciated non blonds, too. It's just that I don't see the back of a non-blond head and want to see his face. With a blond head I manouevre myself into position to see the face.
Now, I know that type means nothing. I guess we're all simply pre-programmed for some reason for one type. I've never loved thattype, not even talked to anyone that much. But I am fascinated by them.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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