I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
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Sexual Reorientation: The gay culture war is about to turn chemical.
By William Saletan, Slate
Last month, when the California Supreme Court declared same-sex marriage a constitutional right, it repeatedly invoked the precedent of interracial marriage. An attorney involved in the case protested, "There is no evidence to establish that a homosexual lifestyle is an immutable characteristic such as race."
He's wrong. There's lots of evidence. More of it just came out this week. It's been driving the gay rights debate all along, away from the clutches of religion and into the clutches of science. The trend is inexorable, but its implications are about to change. The culture war over homosexuality is dying—and a chemical war is threatening to take its place.
Homosexuality used to be regarded as a lifestyle, something you freely chose or rejected. We discouraged, condemned, and punished it like any other sin.
Then along came science. Study after study found differences between gay and straight brains. Homosexuality came to be viewed less as a lifestyle and more as an orientation, too deeply rooted to be freely rejected. Gay activists embraced and trumpeted these studies. Public opinion shifted. Punishment and condemnation began to subside.
But the march of science into the gay brain hasn't stopped. It has continued, seeking to understand not just what doesn't cause homosexuality—playing with dolls, growing up with a strong mother, watching Will and Grace—but what does. And the more we understand these biological factors, the closer we get to being able to change them.
I rather hope that they never find out a difference that could be the reason just as no-one yet can diagnose the next Mozart or Francis Bacon in the womb and I hope they never will.
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I agree with you whole heartedly on that one Anthony…. I quite like who I am despite the attempts from the age of eleven very aggressive attempts to change my sexual orientation.
I never could understand why people thought it so terrible to be same sex attracted, or say things like “who would choose to be gay”??? I find it a very lovely thing and the only reason I ever tried having relationships with the opposite sex is because of the treatment I did have as a youth. Don’t get me wrong I find both human forms beautiful always have, but it’s the guy things both physically emotionally and mentally that get my engine revved.
Besides, I really do think it is a natural mechanism that could help keep the human over population down. No way to tell, but that reasoning has always appealed to me, if there actually has to be a reason!
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The Greeks used homosexuality as a form of birth control and to control the population. Men would make deals with younger men or boys to provide them with an education and home in exchange for sex. this prevented unwanted pregnancys and afforded poor boys an education so they could better their lives.
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>Liberals are slow to see what's coming. They're still fighting the culture war. The Toronto Star, like other papers, finds a neuroscientist who thinks the new study "should erode the moral judgments often made against homosexual preferences and rebut any argument that it is a mere a lifestyle choice." Well, yes. But then what? The reduction of homosexuality to neurobiology doesn't mean your sexual orientation can't be controlled. It just means the person controlling it won't be you.
What a sad thought.
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