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icon5.gif "pussyboicumdump" - why does this seem to nasty and so typical?  [message #66626] Fri, 23 March 2012 09:55
timmy

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I was playing on Tumblr, and I either found of imagined this user name. I never bothered to go and look. Why? Because it just feels nasty. And then I noticed more and more appalling user names, ones that disparage the very thing they seem to worship.

Then I looked at Nifty with eyes I've always used, at the tales I've avoided. The ones that despise the men and boys they appear to be attracted to.

That got me wondering. Why does anyone use such terms about the things they are naturally attracted to? And why is it so common?


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