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timmy
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Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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Orgasm and ejaculation are genuinely distinct end products of sexual arousal, usually occurring very close to each other, sufficiently close to be indistinguishable.
I define orgasm as the huge and overwhelming set of sensations I find enjoyable and ejaculation as the simple emission of fluids.
Orgasm is by no means always the same, sometimes being a pathetic shadow of a thing, and other times being excellent and almost disabling.
I find nowadays that ejaculation can arrive before orgasm, rendering that which was stiff to become floppy, and that makes achieving orgasm a challenge. But I have a history of some unpleasant surgery which has all but removed my ability to orgasm without using industrial grade effort.
The orgasm itself centres on the prostate and the sensation of pulsing is the rush of loads of fluids into and from the prostate and then onwards and outwards, propelled by muscle contraction. This suggests to me that you need to check prostate function, a simple blood test, to reassure yourself that all is well. If you have any oddity when peeing that indicates a prostate test is needed.
As with anyhting, ask us with pleasure, but take any doubts to the doctor. You are very young to have prostate issues, but never rule things out unless a qualified doctor has done so.
Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
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