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Fri, 25 April 2003 02:46

Guest

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I have been with my husband for nearly 10 years. When we first met, i found letters from another man, in which it seemed like a pretty romantic love affair. I confronted him about this back then, and he said nothing happened between this guy and him, he was just "experimenting" at that time in his life. I took his word for it, and we got married. We also have 2 beautiful babies from this marriage. For the past few years, I have been literally begging for sex. He hasn't had too much of an interest, he always complains he is tired, etc, etc. So on average we have had sex about 3 to 4 times a year. I just find this so bizarre, and I'm not trying to brag, but I am a pretty attractive woman considering I am a model as well. (We actually met years ago when we both were in a commercial together.) Anyhow, I am tired of being confronted by outsiders who secretly question if my husband is gay. He has a good job, and also interior decorates on the side. We never fight, he has been a wonderful friend to me during this relationship, but we just haven't been too romatically involved. I am devastated the more I think about this, I just can't believe he dosent find me attractive. I feel so ugly, so unattractive. Am I in denial?

		Is my husband gay? By: Guest on Fri, 25 April 2003 02:46
		I'm forwarding this to my wife By: trevor on Fri, 25 April 2003 06:39
		Reply from her By: trevor on Sat, 26 April 2003 05:02
		It is hard to know By: timmy on Fri, 25 April 2003 09:45
		Re: It is hard to know By: Guest on Fri, 25 April 2003 12:58
		Re: It is hard to know By: david in hong kong on Fri, 25 April 2003 13:31
		Re: It is hard to know By: e on Fri, 25 April 2003 16:05
		If it helps at all.... By: timmy on Fri, 25 April 2003 17:34
		love ya timmy... By: rbryce on Fri, 25 April 2003 17:59
		Re: If it helps at all.... By: Guest on Fri, 25 April 2003 18:41
		Re: If it helps at all.... By: thirdfencepost on Fri, 25 April 2003 18:52
		Hi andy By: e on Fri, 25 April 2003 20:13
		Sacrifices By: e on Fri, 25 April 2003 20:00
		Something else to consider By: e on Fri, 25 April 2003 20:07
		Re: If it helps at all.... By: rbryce on Fri, 25 April 2003 21:51
		Re: If it helps at all.... By: trevor on Sat, 26 April 2003 05:55
		I shed tears for both parties. And shudder for myself By: Guest on Sat, 26 April 2003 14:23
		Welcome, Sundial! I do know several women By: trevor on Sat, 26 April 2003 15:51
		Some interesting things have happened lately... By: Guest on Wed, 30 April 2003 14:11
		I'm sorry if I'm not very helpful here... By: lenny on Wed, 30 April 2003 14:58
		Thanks for the good news! By: david in hong kong on Wed, 30 April 2003 15:59
		ah. Maybe By: timmy on Wed, 30 April 2003 17:58
		Low Libido is just FINE` By: timmy on Wed, 30 April 2003 18:02

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