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Registered: March 2012
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Ok i think things are getting out of hand here. People here are not taking the time to read the post deeply. Please don't jump on me because i say this, let me explain.
First of all we need to understand this is the internet which means we are probably never going to see each other faces ( some of you have ) and see your facial expressions when saying something. We can't hear each others tone of voice so we would never know in what mood the person is. This one of the down sides of the internet because things can be misread very easily.
What do we need to do? We need to read the post at a different level, don't take things very personal. I can insult you and say bad things about you but here at home i'm laughing just making a post hoping you guys would not take it seriously. See how difficult it is. I have learn not to take things seriously or personal because of this.
Second i like what Timmy says on top of the messageboard " Any advice should come from the perspective of the person asking , not the person giving" If we try this we might save ourselves a lot of trouble. If we do direct a post to someone else, we need to think about how the other person is going to take it because we are never going see his face and know how he thinks. If you decide to disagree with someone else, don't tell them in what they are wrong ( in world they are right and we need to accept it ) withougt explaining why you thing that way , instead type an answer explaining exactly what you believe. Imagin you are not answering to him , you are just typing a post for someone else to read. Trust me , that way you are going to make your point without hurting the other person. It is alright to disagree, in fact this is what makes us special.
Third this is why i don't participate with the heavy topics. I'm a kid, i'm starting to live my life and i don't have that much expirience. But when i make a reply is not to offend anybody ( i think nobody wants to offend anybody, right? ) i just try to explain how i would solve the situation or what are my beliefs. I respect what you believe hoping you will repect what i believe.
So in conclusion, read the post throughly and when responding to the post don't answer by attacking his believes but instead explaining yours.
I have no idea if all of this made sense. Please when i wrote this i was trying to explain what i see wrong here and maybe give solutions in what to do. I was not trying to direct it to anybody, this is general ( sorry if i gave to the inpression of directhing this to you, i wasn't ). See how many things i need to explain just so averybody doesn't get offended.
Hoping people will understand what i said
M.
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