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I came out to my dad today, and he was cool with me being gay!!!!! A bit shocked ofcourse, and will need some time to get used to it, but he was cool with it. Smile I'm so glad right now :)Smile

It's weird, before and while telling him I was SO nervous and then right after he left I had like a million and one 'what if's going through my head, but it's really starting to sink in now. And it makes being gay so much more real all of a sudden. Like it was somehow official, or something.

I still need to tell my mom, and that might be quite a bit messier, but dad's gonna help me with her so it'll be ok in the end, I hope. But right now uni has started for the fall again, the gay student club at the uni is having meetings after summer break (and I'm starting to feel comfortable being there) and I've told my dad. Life is good, and I think this is what being happy is Smile And I know I'm not making much sense right not, but I just wanted to share this with ya now and not in the morning. But I'm off to bed now.

{{{{{{{{{{huge hugs to whoever wants them}}}}}}}}}}
Setras

PS. Today was also the first day I told my dad I love him in a way too long time, even if it was on the phone. I hope to start making a habit out of it, though Smile


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