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Sun, 14 September 2003 13:27

timmy

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I have watched and looked at both gay and str8 porn films and pictures.

The area of difference is with oral sex. And I find I am confused by it.

There are two main differences. The first is in behaviour and facial expression leading to orgasm, and the second is the orgasm itself.

Fellatio
- Gay: The penis being licked and sucked is treated with a reverence however enthusiastic and rough the fellatio. It is treated firmly, and caressed. The facial expression of the fellator is one of usually contemplation or delight.
- Straight: The penis being licked or sucked appears to be disliked. The facial expression of the fellator is a "studied porn film face" masking an apparent disgust of the act and the body part. It is a sort of "cheap slut" face. Violent fellatio is pretty much the norm here.
Orgasm
- Gay: The fellator's face shows wonderment at what he has helped the fellatee achieve. There is rarely excessive semen added by the props team, and such semen that there is is not usually plastered extravangetly over the fellator's face, nor is it dribbled out of the mouth. it;s almost "business is business, and that was good business"
- Straight: The "cheap slut" face is maintained and an exaggerated quantity of semen and "prop team fake semen" is bestowed liberally over the fellator's face. The cheap slut face can't help but look disgusted (and I don't blame her in these circumstances)

I have noticed similar differences in the poses of male and female hunks in even the daily newspapers.

So, should we conclude that straight men like women to be cheap sluts?

I don't think so. No-one I have asked wants that at all.

So, what is going on here? For I have no idea.

Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School

		One major difference between gay and str8 porn By: timmy on Sun, 14 September 2003 13:27
		Re: One major difference between gay and str8 porn By: david in hong kong on Sun, 14 September 2003 13:46
		Glycerine and Jerghen's Hand Lotion.... By: marc on Sun, 14 September 2003 20:08
		Re: One major difference between gay and str8 porn By: kevin on Sun, 14 September 2003 13:48
		not sure i agree By: timmy on Sun, 14 September 2003 13:52
		in case our ladies get offended By: timmy on Sun, 14 September 2003 13:55
		Re: in case our ladies get offended By: misplaced on Sun, 14 September 2003 14:28
		but the facial expression? By: timmy on Sun, 14 September 2003 15:28
		Re: not sure i agree By: kevin on Sun, 14 September 2003 14:00
		Re: One major difference between gay and str8 porn By: Styopa on Sun, 14 September 2003 14:36
		Now that is true By: timmy on Sun, 14 September 2003 15:49
		Re: Now that is true By: robert bryce on Tue, 16 September 2003 05:54
		Re: Now that is true By: robert bryce on Tue, 16 September 2003 06:59
		Re: One major difference between gay and str8 porn By: robert bryce on Tue, 16 September 2003 12:24
		Re: One major difference between gay and str8 porn By: timmy on Tue, 16 September 2003 14:07
		Re: One major difference between gay and str8 porn By: robert bryce on Tue, 16 September 2003 14:35
		you miss the original point By: timmy on Tue, 16 September 2003 14:50
		Re: One major difference between gay and str8 porn By: saben on Tue, 16 September 2003 16:06
		Re: One major difference between gay and str8 porn By: robert bryce on Tue, 16 September 2003 21:16
		This really should not need explaining By: timmy on Tue, 16 September 2003 22:01
		Is anyone offended by that ????? By: kevin on Tue, 16 September 2003 22:02
		i wasn't. By: misplaced on Tue, 16 September 2003 22:07
		So the real question becomes: By: timmy on Tue, 16 September 2003 22:08
		To just those people making the faces.... By: marc on Wed, 17 September 2003 01:05
		Re: One major difference between gay and str8 porn By: theerubberducky on Wed, 17 September 2003 05:27
		There is another side ...... By: marc on Tue, 16 September 2003 21:21
		A very sensible question By: timmy on Tue, 16 September 2003 22:15
		Well, I have to agree.... to a point.... By: marc on Tue, 16 September 2003 21:32
		No-one has called an actor a slut By: timmy on Tue, 16 September 2003 21:52
		I don't disagree..... By: marc on Tue, 16 September 2003 21:57
		Re: Well, I have to agree.... to a point.... By: kevin on Tue, 16 September 2003 22:07
		Oh I know.... And agree.... By: marc on Tue, 16 September 2003 22:32
		Re: One major difference between gay and str8 porn timmys po By: robert bryce on Tue, 16 September 2003 23:42
		Uhmm.... By: kevin on Wed, 17 September 2003 02:15
		So, let's create a thread for this. By: timmy on Wed, 17 September 2003 06:33
		Re: So, let's create a thread for this. By: robert bryce on Wed, 17 September 2003 09:23
		Re: So, let's create a thread for this. By: marc on Wed, 17 September 2003 09:34
		Re: One major difference between gay and str8 porn By: theerubberducky on Wed, 17 September 2003 05:42
		Re: One major difference between gay and str8 porn By: misplaced on Wed, 17 September 2003 12:08

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