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icon5.gif My dear friends and family, may I have some (dating) advice?  [message #15994] Sun, 05 October 2003 03:36 Go to previous message
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well here goes.... a little backrground first (like the quiet drum roll..)

I am 41 years old, and have told you about my kids. I am a very responsible person, faithful to a fault, and a very strong lover. I am single, am just now ready to begin dating, and have not sexually active at all... not until Mr. Right shows up... which is where my quandry lies...

Mr. Right... let's call him Michael (because that is his name), asked a mutual friend if he would set us up on a date. I think it is cute, because Mike thinks I am too cute to approach (his words, honestly !!!!!! Look, I am just trying to be honest !!!!!!)

I have met and talked with Mike a few times, and he seems like a great person !!! We have had great conversations and all, but have never formally dated.

I am interested in dating him except for one thing: Michael has not been in a relationship for almost 7 years since he cheated on his last partner and they broke up. He also had a history of cheating on his previous 2 boyfriends, too...

My situation and challenge: I am a very faithful person. I would never cheat on another. Mike has not had the chance to cheat on anyone since his last partner... not being in a relationship since then... so...

Is it possible for someone to move beyond having a cheating mentality??? That is the only reason I would not date Mike. I refuse to date someone who has a history of this kind of behavior...

I know... you are going to say "Well ask him !!" and "Talk to him about it." But we all know what he would say either if he was true or still a cheating person...

So... please, can some of you put in your dollar's worth of advice to help me look at this issue from eyes other than mine???????

In advance, thank you all... I love all of you very much !!!!!!

Hugs, Smiles, and Peace......

BamBam


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