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Thu, 30 March 2006 13:48

timmy

Has no life at all

Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
Messages: 13828

Heterosexuals have it easy. No thought involved. When two get naked together they have no decisions to make about what goes where, or why.

When I was growing up I remember making a concious decision that I wanted to be penetrated rather than penetrating. I knew I could, and would penetrate, but I knew I wanted to be the one receiving it.

But why did I even make this decision? Until I made it the natural thing, having a penis, was to penetrate. Where did the decision come from? Why did I even know I needed to make it (if I needed to at all)? And how, since I had never been so much as touched properly by another boy, how did I know so clearly what I wanted?

I really don't expect anyone to answer my questions about me. But what about answering them about you?

Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School

		Life, the universe and everything By: timmy on Thu, 30 March 2006 13:48
		... which has an answer but no question. By: Deeej on Thu, 30 March 2006 14:21
		Re: ... which has an answer but no question. By: timmy on Thu, 30 March 2006 18:06
		Re: ... which has an answer but no question. By: marc on Thu, 30 March 2006 18:38
		Re: ... which has an answer but no question. By: Navyone on Thu, 30 March 2006 19:27
		Re: ... which has an answer but no question. By: timmy on Thu, 30 March 2006 20:53
		Re: ... which has an answer but no question. By: NW on Thu, 30 March 2006 22:00
		Re: ... which has an answer but no question. By: marc on Thu, 30 March 2006 22:11
		Re: ... which has an answer but no question. By: Brian1407a on Fri, 31 March 2006 00:02
		Re: ... which has an answer but no question. By: Deeej on Fri, 31 March 2006 00:06
		Re: ... which has an answer but no question. By: timmy on Fri, 31 March 2006 07:31
		Re: ... which has an answer but no question. By: Deeej on Fri, 31 March 2006 11:46
		Re: ... which has an answer but no question. By: Handyman on Wed, 05 April 2006 01:11
		Re: ... which has an answer but no question. By: Handyman on Thu, 06 April 2006 12:32
		Re: Life, the universe and everything By: marc on Thu, 30 March 2006 18:28
		Re: Life, the universe and everything By: timmy on Thu, 30 March 2006 20:07
		Re: Life, the universe and everything By: marc on Thu, 30 March 2006 21:09
		Re: Life, the universe and everything By: marc on Thu, 30 March 2006 21:11
		Re: Life, the universe and everything By: Guest on Fri, 31 March 2006 04:21
		Re: Life, the universe and everything By: timmy on Fri, 31 March 2006 07:25
		Re: Life, the universe and everything By: Guest on Fri, 31 March 2006 17:18
		Re: Life, the universe and everything By: timmy on Fri, 31 March 2006 21:37
		Male heterosexual bottom ... By: cossie on Fri, 31 March 2006 01:33
		Re: Male heterosexual bottom ... By: timmy on Fri, 31 March 2006 07:27
		Re: Male heterosexual bottom ... By: pimple on Fri, 31 March 2006 17:32
		Re: Male heterosexual bottom ... By: timmy on Fri, 31 March 2006 21:40
		Yup, Simon, I agree. By: cossie on Fri, 31 March 2006 23:58
		Re: Yup, Simon, I agree. By: pimple on Sat, 01 April 2006 03:53
		Re: Yup, Simon, I agree. By: timmy on Sat, 01 April 2006 12:48
		Re: Male heterosexual bottom ... By: NW on Sat, 01 April 2006 00:40
		What can you expect from a nation of garlic eaters? By: cossie on Sat, 01 April 2006 01:02
		Re: What can you expect from a nation of garlic eaters? By: timmy on Sun, 02 April 2006 16:05
		Garlic is a different-coloured fish? By: cossie on Sun, 02 April 2006 23:23
		Re: Male heterosexual bottom ... By: timmy on Sat, 01 April 2006 17:14
		Re: Male heterosexual bottom ... By: Guest on Sat, 01 April 2006 19:06
		Re: Male heterosexual bottom ... By: Brian1407a on Sat, 01 April 2006 19:24
		Re: Male heterosexual bottom ... By: timmy on Sun, 02 April 2006 08:28
		Re: Male heterosexual bottom ... By: Jedediah on Sat, 01 April 2006 20:02
		Re: Male heterosexual bottom ... By: marc on Sat, 01 April 2006 22:13
		Re: "most rudamentary rules of grammar and punctuation" By: Nigel on Sun, 02 April 2006 08:12
		Don't feed the troll! By: Deeej on Sat, 01 April 2006 22:37
		Re: Don't feed the troll! By: timmy on Sun, 02 April 2006 08:31
		Re: Don't feed the troll! By: jaycracker on Sun, 02 April 2006 22:32
		Re: Don't feed the troll! By: Nigel on Mon, 03 April 2006 19:41
		Re: Don't feed the troll! By: timmy on Mon, 03 April 2006 22:41
		Why is it that the 'guests' on this board are the least By: pimple on Sat, 01 April 2006 23:15
		Re: Male heterosexual bottom ... By: timmy on Sun, 02 April 2006 08:17
		As I said, banal By: timmy on Sun, 02 April 2006 19:19
		Banal indeed By: Deeej on Sun, 02 April 2006 21:18
		Re: Banal indeed By: timmy on Sun, 02 April 2006 21:36
		Re: Life, the universe and everything By: Handyman on Mon, 03 April 2006 01:48
		Re: Life, the universe and everything By: JFR on Mon, 03 April 2006 03:14
		Re: Life, the universe and everything By: Handyman on Wed, 05 April 2006 01:25
		Hmmmmmmm By: Deeej on Mon, 03 April 2006 10:55
		Re: Hmmmmmmm By: Handyman on Mon, 03 April 2006 14:41
		I apologize for errors there in.... By: Handyman on Mon, 03 April 2006 17:44
		Re: I apologize for errors there in.... By: Brian1407a on Wed, 05 April 2006 12:38
		Let's go! By: Guest on Wed, 05 April 2006 14:22
		Middle English By: Deeej on Wed, 05 April 2006 15:53
		Re: Middle English By: Handyman on Wed, 05 April 2006 16:39
		Re: Middle English By: Deeej on Wed, 05 April 2006 17:54
		Re: Middle English By: Brian1407a on Wed, 05 April 2006 18:25
		Re: Middle English By: Handyman on Thu, 06 April 2006 00:55
		Re: Middle English By: E.J. on Thu, 06 April 2006 01:17
		Re: Middle English By: Deeej on Thu, 06 April 2006 10:26
		Re: Middle English By: marc on Thu, 06 April 2006 10:45
		Re: Middle English By: Deeej on Thu, 06 April 2006 11:12
		Re: Middle English By: Deeej on Thu, 06 April 2006 11:13
		Re: Middle English By: Handyman on Thu, 06 April 2006 12:46
		Re: Let's go! By: Brian1407a on Wed, 05 April 2006 18:30
		H2G2 By: Deeej on Wed, 05 April 2006 19:05
		Re: H2G2 By: Jedediah on Wed, 05 April 2006 19:32
		The real answer to the ultimate question ... By: Deeej on Wed, 05 April 2006 20:00
		Re: The real answer to the ultimate question ... By: Jedediah on Wed, 05 April 2006 20:19
		Re: The real answer to the ultimate question ... By: Deeej on Wed, 05 April 2006 21:42
		Re: H2G2 By: Brian1407a on Wed, 05 April 2006 19:59
		Re: H2G2 By: Deeej on Wed, 05 April 2006 20:09
		Re: Hmmmmmmm By: Deeej on Wed, 05 April 2006 16:22
		Re: Hmmmmmmm By: Handyman on Wed, 05 April 2006 17:00
		Re: Hmmmmmmm By: Brian1407a on Wed, 05 April 2006 18:08
		Re: Hmmmmmmm By: Navyone on Wed, 05 April 2006 18:26
		Re: Hmmmmmmm By: timmy on Wed, 05 April 2006 23:06
		Re: Hmmmmmmm By: timmy on Wed, 05 April 2006 23:26
		Re: Hmmmmmmm By: Deeej on Thu, 06 April 2006 10:53
		Re: Hmmmmmmm By: timmy on Thu, 06 April 2006 11:30
		Re: Hmmmmmmm By: Handyman on Thu, 06 April 2006 12:30
		Re: Hmmmmmmm By: Handyman on Thu, 06 April 2006 12:03
		Definitely not unattractive By: nick on Thu, 06 April 2006 12:24
		Re: Definitely not unattractive By: Deeej on Thu, 06 April 2006 12:43
		Re: Definitely not unattractive By: Handyman on Thu, 06 April 2006 12:53
		Re: Definitely not unattractive By: nick on Thu, 06 April 2006 21:55
		Re: Definitely not unattractive By: Handyman on Fri, 07 April 2006 18:48
		Re: Hmmmmmmm By: Brian1407a on Thu, 06 April 2006 16:22
		Re: Hmmmmmmm By: Deeej on Thu, 06 April 2006 17:48
		Re: Hmmmmmmm By: Jedediah on Thu, 06 April 2006 18:38
		Re: Hmmmmmmm By: timmy on Thu, 06 April 2006 20:45
		Re: Hmmmmmmm By: Navyone on Thu, 06 April 2006 21:04
		Re: Hmm Yeah! What Brian said!! By: Handyman on Thu, 06 April 2006 11:04
		Deej, from my studies on the subject.. By: Handyman on Thu, 06 April 2006 10:14

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