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Probably a silly question (5 actually, but 3 are redundant)  [message #30800] Sat, 08 April 2006 22:50 Go to previous message
Deeej is currently offline  Deeej

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Hi all,

Where everyone has everyone disappeared off to in the last couple of days (Brian, Cossie, JFR, Simon)? Perhaps its just that inactivity breeds inactivity?

In an attempt to kick-start a conversation...

Apart from the gut-wrenchingly embarrassing university gay society, where one does not seem to have anything at all in common with the people around one except for one's sexuality (and as I personally don't like talking about "gay things", whatever they might be, very much, there is no potential point of contact there)...
... what is the best way of finding other gay people with a view to friendship?

Or is joining that society the only realistic way for a person in my situation?

I have to say that I have only very occasionally (outside the aforementioned society) been aware of gay people around the university campus. Either there aren't very many gay people, or there aren't very many "out" gay people. And, unfortunately, my university has an awful lot of gurls [sic], and hence correspondingly fewer boys.

Anyway, it's the holidays at the moment, so I'm not actually at university. Is there anything I could do in the meantime that might be beneficial?

Deeej
 
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