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I have been thinking about sex  [message #39487] Thu, 30 November 2006 18:33 Go to previous message
timmy

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All in all, sex is a ridiculous act. Penetrating one set of body parts with another set of body parts and rubbing a bit, well, that is plain ludicrous.

I got to thinking about body parts, form and function.

Although long term gay men are likely to say "yuck" when faced with a vagina, bear with me. A vagina is simply a moist environment which welcomes a penis, and is reasonably easy to penetrate.

A penis is simply a tube of flesh with a surprisingly insenstive tip (it can handle hot, cold, pain, and touch only. Other fatcors are required for orgasm or all men would have them all the time just from walking about).

Looked at dispassionately, neither a penis nor a vagina is particularly aesthetically pleasing. Funtional, yes, but not really something that would enhance one's living room if models of them were to be on display.

I moved my thoughts away from sex to the other person.

Each of us is different, but I suspect most people care what it is that gives them an orgasm. Men do not, I think, put a penis into the hands of someone who will abuse it. Most men, anyway. And, if we were indiscriminate we would not care if our sexual partner of the moment were male, female or a farmyard animal. And this is true even if we cannot see our partner. Think glory holes. Well I prefer not to, but, in general, these are a masculine adventure. I'm sure there are such holes for ladies on one side and gentlemen on the other, of course there are, but they seem not to form part of "sexual mythology"

So what do we want from sex? Why is sex so "special"?


Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School
 
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