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Hi.....  [message #40756] Fri, 26 January 2007 00:19 Go to previous message
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Its been a while since the last time i was here. I used to frequent this site about a year ago when i had more time to do these things. Here i am, back again, i guess looking for some answers. I know reading the wonderful stories on this site had helped me a lot. However, this time i want to try the forum.

Just a few things to clarify. First of all, please excuse my English as it is my second language. Second, i'm 19 years old so experience is something i lack of. Finally, i'm just looking for suggestions, ideas, anything that might help me find the answers i'm looking for.

A little background story.... I been dating a guy for the last 7 months, which might not be a long time for some of you. We have become rather close, or at least, i would like to think so. We talk all the time, hang out when we can, and of course, we have our disagreements from time to time.

Problem... over the past few months a lot of things have changed. he has made a lot of future plans for 'US'. He has become obssesed with me to the point that he is afraid of losing me and will do anything to keep me around. Honestly, it scares me. All of the sudden i lost control of the situation. I like him, i wish to work out things with him. But sometimes i'm not sure i want to continue. He is a very nice person; i'm afraid to break his heart.A Few days ago, he confessed i was the only person that intimidated him, which for me, sounds strange. I guess since i tend to hold my feelings in and when i explode, i do it with full force and bad things happen.

I know there is something wrong here.............
anybody can do some psychoanalysis?????

Miguel

p.s probobly didn't do a good job explaining myself. i'm trying to figure things out myself. If anybody has a question, i'll be happy to answer. I know talking about this will help.



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