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Tue, 26 June 2007 11:38

timmy

Has no life at all

Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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For many years, both before and after I married, I tried very hard to convince myself that I was actually heterosexual. I considered Pavlov and reasoned that masturbating over pictures of attractive naked women would ensure that I associated sexual pleasure with the naked female form. This is wholly logical and sensible, and had some effect.

It meant that I was able to function sexually with girls, and able to learn how to be a very good lover. I'm not boasting. Being a good lover is a breeze. Any fool can do it if they think.

Before the internet my naked imagery was restricted to magazines like Penthouse. Playboy was always a waste of effort. Playgirl was amusing, but the naked hunkery usually had a staple in his todger. I am not into piercings!

As the internet arrived in my life I was able to see naked pictures of both genders. I was able to check what my dick was interested in. I still check periodically.

This may be too much information!

My favourite pictures are of penetration of a lithe body by another lithe body. If the face is absent I can picture cute faces in my head anyway. So I seek out slim girls and slim guys, with that sheen of youth that twenty somethings still have.

The reactions to each are noticeably different:

Male penetrating female gets a twitch of interest. Sex itself is interesting, and thus I am interested. But I do not find female genitalia appealing, and it remains as a twitch. I can't visualise myself in the position at all, yet I have been there many times
Male penetrating male and I get very interested indeed. I can visualise myself in either role.

I was wondering whether anyone else had experiences related to this they might want to share.

Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School

		Working on the "nurture" side of growing up... By: timmy on Tue, 26 June 2007 11:38
		Re: Working on the "nurture" side of growing up... By: marc on Tue, 26 June 2007 11:50
		Re: Working on the "nurture" side of growing up... By: NW on Tue, 26 June 2007 12:55
		Re: Working on the "nurture" side of growing up... By: CallMePaul on Tue, 26 June 2007 17:16
		Re: Working on the "nurture" side of growing up... By: timmy on Tue, 26 June 2007 19:52
		Re: Working on the "nurture" side of growing up... By: CallMePaul on Tue, 26 June 2007 20:34
		Re: Working on the "nurture" side of growing up... By: timmy on Tue, 26 June 2007 20:50
		Re: Working on the "nurture" side of growing up... By: CallMePaul on Tue, 26 June 2007 21:58
		Re: Working on the "nurture" side of growing up... By: timmy on Tue, 26 June 2007 22:02
		Re: Working on the "nurture" side of growing up... By: CallMePaul on Tue, 26 June 2007 22:22
		Re: Working on the "nurture" side of growing up... By: marc on Tue, 26 June 2007 20:37
		Re: Working on the "nurture" side of growing up... By: arich on Tue, 26 June 2007 17:40
		Re: Working on the "nurture" side of growing up... By: Nigel on Tue, 26 June 2007 22:16
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		Re: Working on the "nurture" side of growing up... By: saben on Wed, 27 June 2007 03:53
		Re: Working on the "nurture" side of growing up... By: timmy on Thu, 28 June 2007 09:13

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