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I thought, pretty much, that my school was unique, except for the representation in "If..." of UK Public Schools of the 1960s in the allowing of expressions of amorous adoration of younger boys, but not real homosexual erotic thoughts harboured towards them.
While Michael Campbell also put this into "Lord Dismiss Us", I had assumed it to have been a fiction.
I am reading "Moab is my Washpot", a rant by Stephen Fry disguised as an autobiography. Uppingham, it seems, also had younger boys "displayed" as fashion accessories, too, just like Epsom did. And it also disapproved if it was felt that you were really queer.