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Michael-Kent Dobison is currently offline  Michael-Kent Dobison

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Hey all,

In light of the posts over the last little while I have a question for you all, if you choose to answer that's great if not I will respect your choice. If you wish to answer the question but do not want anyone to see please feel free to email me. All answer disclosed in private will be kept this way. So here it is :

Do you feel the necessity to be with another person, either in a relationship or otherwise, and why?

Now I feel it only fare that if I ask the question I should answer it too.

I feel no necessity, however to be "with" people is great. Weather it be in a relationship or just in general gatherings.

Been around people stimulates me. I love to see how people act when faced with a situation, I like to compare them to myself and what I would do, or would have done in the same situation.

However, been in a relationship you are only with one person. The touch of another human can not be compared to anything, nor can it be replaced by anyother action. Thus I feel no necessity to be with anyone, but I do feel the necessity for the "feel" factor. To see a person can only stimulate a few selected actions and reactions. But to feel that same person can change and action and reaction in any way.

Proven in the theory of relativity, the shortest distance between two points is zero. To demonstrate this, take a piece of paper and draw two dots / squares / circle ( you get the point ) anywhere on the page. Then take the page and fold it in such a way that both points made are one above the other. You see.

Now I know this is a really simple analogy, but hey it works.

Thus with a zero point distance between two objects, i.e. people, the action taken or the reaction created is relative. Relative to what you may ask, well that depends on the person acting or reacting.

Is this making any kind of sense to anyone other than myself ?

Right then, so in closing I must say that, the question is relative.



"And so the lion fell in love with the Lamb"
"What a stupid Lamb"
"What a sick, masochistic lion"
 
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