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Once again, sitting in English bored to tears.
I thought I would pass on a few things about Internet pictures and webcams I have learned through very bitter experience. This is mostly for we younger guys, since very few people are interested in pictures of middle aged and older dudes.
Apparently there are now guys, and maybe women too, who have nothing to do all day but cruise myspace and similar sites for pictures of young guys. It doesn't even matter if we're shirtless or fully dressed. Naturally they get off most on "beach" pics and when we have shirtless pics up, but these pervs really just harvest any boy pictures they come across.
1. If you have a myspace, facebook, or flickr account, get your personal pictures off of them. If you want to leave them on then set the photo sharing to no exchanges. In fact, set your whole myspace site to "private." Changing the settings won't positively insure against hackers getting your pics, but it makes it harder for them.
2. Never send pictures of yourself to anyone you have not met in person, face-to-face, unless you have established some special bond or level of trust. Even then, think twice about it. And never, ever, send anything like pictures of yourself naked, or sagging down to your pubes, or your erection showing outlined in your cargs or briefs. Pervs have discovered saggers, and it's the new turn on for them I think.
3. If you have a webcam, think twice, three times, four times, before you turn it on. Always, always assume what you do is being recorded. Always. Always assume that if you do anything even remotely lewd or arousing, you are going to appear on U-Tube, X-Tube, or some perv's site. Always assume this. Sorry dudes, but trust me on this one, okay? You're talking to some dude, he gets you hot, you get naked for him and maybe jack off. Half an hour later, you're on the twink section of X-Tube.
4. Maybe you think you can trust a dude, or a girl, and for kicks you do the webcam act. Very few people can keep a confidence, and a secret. Your girl thinks she has to share it with her girl friends, and they share, and they share... you get the picture. Eventually, you WILL be seen by the world.
I'm not accusing anyone here of anything, and I don't want to start another of those endless and trivial debates that the habitues of this site are so prone to entering into. This was posted for the information of younger guys only.
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