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Never coming out.  [message #47977] Wed, 02 January 2008 09:03 Go to previous message
XteveKyo is currently offline  XteveKyo

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Hi...i just got back from our little holiday vacation...Just my sis and my mom and some family friends...We were in one of the best beach resorts in the country...it was pretty expensive but all worth it...It was CUTIE heaven!!! XD..anyway, it was all great until my sister dropped a bombshell on me...
See i have this good friend...he's 23 and ive heard things about him and his bestfriend...but u knw rumors are always never true so i just laughed it off...but just recently, i kinda confirmed that there was a lot of truth to it (long story)...and my sis also learned about it(nother long story)...
So we talked bout it while we were there...she was utterly shocked coz he's like a big brother to us and she felt disgusted about them being a couple and all...she thinks his parents, who happend to be with us that day, might disown him...if theyl know that is... THEN i asked her how she'd feel if i was er...unstraight..i dunno why i said that it just sorta came out in the "heat" of the moment u know...
Anyway, she told me she CANT stomach the idea of having a gay brother...and that it'll just hurt mom and my father (*cringe*) will prolly murder me. She was just disgusted by the whole thing. I ddnt push the topic further as i might accidentally out myself...and that was it. Now i know how theyd feel.
Guess ill just have to live a straight life...or at least i could try...
i mean the last thing i wanna do is hurt their feelings. mybe il find a good, loving girl and marry her and have kids...i like kids...mybe it'll work out...oh well...life... Sigh...

PS...I never had the chance to greet any1 here so Happy New Year to all! ...i know mine wont be..

-Steve

[Updated on: Wed, 02 January 2008 09:08]



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