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My father....  [message #49240] Sun, 24 February 2008 09:53 Go to previous message
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who i've never met in my life, all of sudden, decided to come back into my life. Given that we live in opposite sides of the country, he has tried to have contact with me for the past few months like time hasn't passed. It's been 20 years and now he shows up. I'm very indifferent towards him. I just don't know what a father is, however, the curiousity is there, to know the person most people would call Dad.

I always had the impression he was a complete Homophobe. In his time, he was to say the least, a ladies man. Hence why i have knowledge of a half brother who is few months older than me. Even more interesting, he is also gay. I guess it was your fault dad. I was told he doesn't talk to the other boy;me, on the other hand, i'm very curious to meet him. i would have to travel far and outside the country to see him, but i can find out his address. just to tell him he is not alone...runs in the family, fathers side of the family.

anyways, i just don't know how to handle this. He knows of my sexuality, and frankly, he says he is too old to care about that stuff. He just wants to get to know me. spend time with me, etc. Strange, but where was him when i needed him. He always knew where i was, how to contact me, but never tried till now. He has requested me to go visit him (he pays for the trip). He wants to meet me. I just don't know what to do. I wouldn't know what to say or how to act. Should i call him dad? He was never there though. What if he expects too much of me? I just don't know. Too many questions.

i'm just too confused right now.



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