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icon5.gif I need some help...  [message #49440] Mon, 10 March 2008 09:17 Go to previous message
Michael-Kent Dobison is currently offline  Michael-Kent Dobison

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Location: South Africa - Gauteng
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Hey all you sexy people, how the hell are you all?
I know it has been a while, but my time has been a little monopolised by work and a new potential love interest...

And this is where I need some help... I know what is going through your minds and I just want to flip my lid when I say this.

We met about a month ago, and it all seems to have moved very fast. The more I think he is great, the more I also seem to think that I just can not do it.
I have longed for a relationship for so long now, but I really do not think that I am ready. He is all I have ever wanted in a man, he is kind, and loving, and just perfect ( Well in my eyes ).

Now a week ago, we slept together, and it was nice, but it did nothing for me. I just did not find myself attracted to him at all. It was almost like a one night stand. No emotion, no feeling, nothing. Just get it off and move on. And I do not want it to be like that.

I hear myself saying that I do not love him, just the way he makes me feel. But as far as I am concerned, I can make myself fee like that.

I am really not sure what to do Confused?? Confused?? Confused?? Confused??

He says that he loves me to Earths end, and I don't think that he is joking. I do not want to break his heart by keeping this going, but I am not sure. Have I given it enough time do I need to wait... OMG... My head hurts thinking about all this stuff.

Any and all help will be greatly appreciated.

Thanks Guys.

ME



"And so the lion fell in love with the Lamb"
"What a stupid Lamb"
"What a sick, masochistic lion"
 
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