I expect simple behaviours here. Friendship, and love. Any advice should be from the perspective of the person asking, not the person giving! We have had to make new membership moderated to combat the huge number of spammers who register
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Registered: January 2008
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So dude, whoever you are and thinking about if you should or if you shouldn't talk to this dude you have this crush on. Here's the straight shit. You got friends here willing to send this guy a letter, without mentioning you at all. The letter Jon sent to Jeff that time is an example, and we can rewrite it for you and your situation. Like Timmy says, the ball is in your court for the next play.
The way we see it, you got nothing to lose. If he goes off and goes ape-shit mad because some other dude thinks he might like boys, tough shit for him, he'll never know about you, and Jon and I can deal with whatever gets slung. So you got an even chance with him the way it looks to us. Jon and I have our email addresses posted on our profiles. You are welcome to write.
Most importantly, read the thread those older guys posted. You really want to be middle aged and be looking back on a lot of missed chances and lost opportunities???
I know it's a scary step. But shit damn dude, the rewards for taking that chance are unbelievable. Nothing, absolutely NOTHING beats making love to another boy.