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The morality of "pulling out"  [message #50868] Thu, 12 June 2008 05:54 Go to previous message
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The discussion about the morality of consent in our other discussion got me thinking:

If your boyfriend hates cum and wants you to pull out when he's giving you a blowjob if you don't, and don't tell him you're about to cum and you shoot in his mouth. Is that sexual assault? Rape?

He's consented to the blowjob, but he hasn't consented to the cum. How bad morally is that?

What if it's an accident? You don't realise you're about to shoot and you start while he's still sucking? What if you make an effort to pull out at that point?

Which of these options are moral? Which are immoral? Do any of them count as rape?



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