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no gaydar  [message #51400] Fri, 11 July 2008 20:58 Go to previous message
brit is currently offline  brit

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My daughter had a steady boyfriend for her first two years of high school. He broke off their relationship [non-sexual but plenty of body contact] in May, leaving her devastated and me confused and saddened. I really liked him and the way he treated my daughter, and I liked his family. I felt she was safe with him and that they wouldn't get too deep too quick.

Well, you can tell from the subject line the rest of the story. He told her he was gay about two weeks after he broke up with her. Apparently he was the last to know: my daughter and my ex-wife suspected, his sister knew, many of his friends knew or suspected, his parents had been hinting that it would be okay to tell them if it were the case, etc., etc. And I had no clue either.

So what is this gaydar thing? Do you have to be born with it, or can it develop after you've pulled the veil from your own eyes?

Brit
 
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