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Men and their willies  [message #52952] Thu, 04 September 2008 19:38 Go to previous message
timmy

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Yesterday I went to the doctor. It was part of my regular diabetic screening, no big deal at all. But I wanted to share with you something simple that I did as well that we men just will not do.

I have something that concerns me with the mucous membrane that forms the surface of the glans penis. The right hand side is getting "crisp", and that crispness fragments and comes away leaving a rawness beneath.

So I asked him about it, he asked to see, we discussed the area, and I put it away again.

That simple. That easy. Just as if it were a finger, or a toe.

For me the upshot is that he and I debated whether I need to see a urologist or a dermatologist. We think urologist because it may be linked with the urethraplasty I had a few years ago to cure (by excision) BXO.

That's not the point.

The point, pun available if you want, is that men do not get their bits out and discuss them with the doctor until it's too late, normally. I rather like mine. I get pleasure from it. If it dropped off then peeing in a urinal would be difficult. So I want to keep it. So I asked.


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