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What is it that we see and "like"? [message #53916]

Wed, 08 October 2008 07:53

timmy

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Location: UK, in Devon
Registered: February 2003
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Let me start by saying that this is not a "Why are we gay?" question, nor is it an "I like dicks, do you like them too?" question. I'm not asking "Which body parts do you like?" I see a dick as a pleasant accessory that comes with the fact that I am gay and like males.

What I want to know is more subtle than that. I want to know what it is about a boy that appeals to our instincts over and above a girl. I mean a whole boy versus a whole girl. I include personality, facial appearance, body form, the lot.

You see I do like girls. I find them fun, good company, good to flirt with, good as friends. I just have no interest in anything beyond friendship.

A good friend suggested "maybe we're 10 and simply never made the transition to really like girls" tongue in cheek. He may be right, but if he is then my liking of girls would not happen.

Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School

		What is it that we see and "like"? By: timmy on Wed, 08 October 2008 07:53
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: Fingolfin on Wed, 08 October 2008 08:28
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: acam on Wed, 08 October 2008 12:42
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: marc on Wed, 08 October 2008 11:39
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: timmy on Wed, 08 October 2008 11:51
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: arich on Wed, 08 October 2008 13:08
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: acam on Wed, 08 October 2008 17:34
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: arich on Thu, 09 October 2008 13:35
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: unsui on Wed, 08 October 2008 17:29
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: acam on Wed, 08 October 2008 20:30
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: timmy on Wed, 08 October 2008 21:13
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: Camy on Wed, 08 October 2008 22:32
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: NW on Wed, 08 October 2008 22:56
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: acam on Thu, 09 October 2008 08:22
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: Nigel on Thu, 09 October 2008 08:13
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: acam on Thu, 09 October 2008 08:25
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: Fingolfin on Thu, 09 October 2008 08:28
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: unsui on Thu, 09 October 2008 14:21
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: Nigel on Thu, 09 October 2008 16:23
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: acam on Thu, 09 October 2008 17:47
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: Nigel on Thu, 09 October 2008 21:20
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: ricky on Thu, 09 October 2008 20:47
		Re: What is it that we see and "like"? By: acam on Thu, 09 October 2008 21:17

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