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Wed, 28 January 2009 14:39

timmy

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All my life I have had no difficulty with people of the same sex being in love. I see it as wholly equivalent to people of the opposite sex being in love. I understand love. I see how a man and a man, a man and a woman and a woman and a woman may love each other deeply, deeply enough to die for the other.

I understand sex between men and women, or I do as a man. I understand sex between men and men. But I don't understand what a woman gets out of sex. I can help a woman have an orgasm, but that does not seem to be the be all and end all goal of a woman with sex (and I don't mean procreation, I mean sex).

That means that I do not understand the physical aspects of lesbian sex.

Well, I wouldn't really. After all, though I'm a natural bottom, that is not the same, surely, as a woman being penetrated by a man. And sex need not be penetrative to be fun. But I still don't understand lesbian sex. Love? yes, that is a given. That I understand. But not the physical sex.

Anyone care to help me out?

[Updated on: Wed, 28 January 2009 18:08]

Author of Queer Me! Halfway Between Flying and Crying - the true story of life for a gay boy in the Swinging Sixties in a British all male Public School

		This is probably not the place to ask By: timmy on Wed, 28 January 2009 14:39
		Re: This is probably not the place to ask By: acam on Wed, 28 January 2009 17:08
		Re: This is probably not the place to ask By: timmy on Wed, 28 January 2009 18:15
		Re: This is probably not the place to ask By: JimB on Wed, 28 January 2009 17:59
		Re: This is probably not the place to ask By: timmy on Wed, 28 January 2009 18:06
		Re: This is probably not the place to ask By: e on Thu, 29 January 2009 02:57
		Re: This is probably not the place to ask By: JimB on Thu, 29 January 2009 04:29
		Re: This is probably not the place to ask By: acam on Thu, 29 January 2009 13:16
		Re: This is probably not the place to ask By: arich on Thu, 29 January 2009 14:19

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