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Sexual Help for gays pleasuring their wives  [message #56207] Tue, 31 March 2009 15:05 Go to previous message
Macky is currently offline  Macky

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When you are a gay man married to a woman, sex is a bit unusual. I am much more emotionally attached to my wife than I have ever been to any of my former male partners. On the other hand, sexually I am only interested in men. My wife was frustrated that she could not bring me to orgasm and asked what else could be done. Sheepishly, I showed her a picture of a beautiful young man. I explained the things about the image that made it sexually exciting to me. She approved my using it in bed. It helped bring my sexual orientation together with my wife’s loving sexual stimulation. It helped my love for my wife to cooperate with my sexual desire for men, and the results were very good. Since we like having sex in the dark, I’m going to get an electronic picture frame to look at my guy while I love my lady.


Behold, how good and how pleasant it is
For brothers to dwell together in unity!
Ps 133:1 NASB
 
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